He Flew 10 Times To Thailand For The “Love Of His Life” – She Had 6 Fiancés At The Same Time

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The app showed him hundreds of women from Thailand, the Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia.

They were all beautiful.

All seemed kind in their profile descriptions.

All claimed to want serious relationships leading to marriage.

Marcus felt simultaneously intrigued and uncomfortable.

Was this ethical? Was he being a stereotype? Was this different from regular dating apps? Or just more honest about the transactional nature of modern romance? He talked himself in and out of sending messages a dozen times.

Finally, in mid December, he saw a profile that stopped him cold.

Her username was Bangkok Siri and her first photo showed a woman around his age, maybe late30s, with long dark hair, warm brown eyes, and a genuine smile that seemed to reach all the way to her soul.

Unlike many profiles that featured heavily filtered glamour shots, Siri’s photos seemed natural, unposed.

One showed her at what looked like a street market, laughing at something off camera.

Another showed her with an elderly woman who Marcus assumed was her mother.

Her bio was written in careful, slightly formal English.

Hello, my name is Siporn, but my friends call me Siri.

I am 38 years old and work as a manager at small hotel in Bangkok.

I have never been married because I was busy taking care of my mother who passed away last year.

Now I am ready to find a good man to build a life with.

I am traditional Thai woman who values family, loyalty and honest communication.

I am not looking for sponsor or money.

I have good job and can support myself.

I am looking for real love with a good heart.

Marcus read her profile three times.

Something about her seemed different from the other profiles.

More grounded, less desperate.

She had a job.

She wasn’t asking for money.

She seemed like an actual person rather than a fantasy.

He spent 20 minutes crafting his first message, trying to sound friendly but not creepy.

Interested but not desperate.

Hi Siri, my name is Marcus.

I’m an engineer from Oregon in the United States.

I really appreciated your profile, especially how honest you were about what you’re looking for.

I lost my mom 2 years ago, so I understand how hard that must have been for you.

I’m also looking for something real with someone who values the same things I do.

I’d love to learn more about you and your life in Bangkok if you’re interested in talking.

He hit send before he could overthink it, then immediately regretted it.

She probably gets hundreds of messages, he thought.

Why would she respond to me? But 4 hours later, she did.

Siri’s response was warm and thoughtful, asking Marcus questions about his work, his family, what he liked to do in his free time.

They exchanged messages daily for 2 weeks before she suggested moving to WhatsApp for easier communication.

Their conversations deepened quickly.

Siri told him about growing up in a small village outside Bangkok, moving to the city for work, the difficult years caring for her sick mother.

She asked intelligent questions about engineering, seemed genuinely interested in his hiking trips, laughed at his jokes.

Marcus found himself checking his phone constantly, waiting for her messages, smiling like an idiot when her name appeared on his screen.

The turning point came on Christmas Eve.

Marcus was alone in his house.

Nathan and Sarah having gone to Sarah’s family in California for the holidays.

He sent Siri a message.

Merry Christmas.

I know you don’t celebrate it there, but wanted to wish you well anyway.

Her response came immediately.

Thank you, Marcus.

I am alone tonight also.

My mother’s first Christmas gone, and I miss her so much.

Before he could think better of it, Marcus hit the video call button.

Siri answered on the third ring, her face filling his phone screen.

She was even more beautiful than her photos, and there was something vulnerable in her eyes that made his chest tighten.

“Hi,” he said, suddenly nervous.

“Hi, Marcus,” she replied, her accent making his name sound musical.

“It’s so nice to finally see you.

” They talked for 3 hours that night.

The conversation flowed easily, pauses feeling comfortable rather than awkward.

Siri showed him around her small apartment, introduced him to her cat, a fluffy orange tabby named Mango.

Marcus gave her a tour of his house via phone, showing her his book collection, his guitar he never played, the view of Mount Hood from his back deck.

When they finally said goodbye, Marcus felt something he hadn’t felt in years.

Hope.

Over the next month, they video called almost daily.

Marcus learned that Siri managed a small boutique hotel near the Sukumvid area, that she loved Thai dramas and cooking, that she dreamed of opening her own guest house someday.

She learned that Marcus was quiet but thoughtful, that he valued stability over excitement, that he wanted kids but had resigned himself to probably never having them.

By February, they were saying, “I love you.

” By March, Marcus was booking his first flight to Thailand.

Marcus’ preparations for his first trip to Thailand consumed every spare moment.

He renewed his passport, got the required vaccinations, read guide books about Thai culture, practiced basic Thai phrases from YouTube videos.

He bought new clothes, worried about making a good impression.

He told his brother Nathan about the trip over Sunday dinner at Nathan’s house.

Nathan and Sarah exchanged concerned looks.

“You’re flying halfway around the world to meet someone you’ve only talked to online,” Sarah asked gently.

“I know it sounds crazy,” Marcus said.

“But this is different.

She’s different.

We’ve been talking for months, video calling almost every day.

It’s real.

Have you video called at different times? Nathan asked.

Different times of day, I mean.

To make sure she’s actually where she says she is.

Marcus felt defensive.

Yes, actually.

Morning there, night here, different locations.

She’s shown me her workplace, her neighborhood.

Why are you guys being so suspicious? We’re not suspicious, we’re worried, Sarah said.

These international dating things can be scams.

People create fake identities, use other people’s photos.

How do you know she’s real? Because I’ve seen her, talked to her, gotten to know her over 4 months, Marcus snapped.

Not everyone is trying to scam people.

Some people are genuinely looking for love.

Nathan raised his hands in surrender.

Okay.

Okay.

We just care about you.

If this is real, that’s great.

Just be careful with your money, okay? Don’t send her anything or pay for anything beyond your own expenses, Marcus promised.

Though he felt his brother was being paranoid.

Siri had never asked him for money, never even hinted at financial problems.

She had a job, supported herself, seemed completely independent.

The week before his trip, Marcus could barely concentrate at work.

He counted down the days, then the hours.

He bought small gifts to bring, a University of Oregon sweatshirt, some local Oregon honey and jam, a photo book of the Pacific Northwest.

He wanted to share his world with her.

The night before his departure, Nathan called.

Hey, I’m sorry if we were harsh about this Thailand thing.

I hope it works out.

Just promise me you’ll trust your gut, okay? If something feels wrong, listen to that feeling.

I will, Marcus said.

But honestly, I think this is going to be great.

I really think I found her, you know.

I hope you’re right, Nathan said.

Have a safe flight.

The Thai Airways flight landed at Bangkok Suanaboomi Airport at 11:35 pm on April 14th.

Marcus had barely slept during the 18-hour journey, too nervous and excited.

He cleared immigration, collected his luggage, and emerged into the arrivals hall where hundreds of people waited with signs and flowers.

His heart pounded as he scanned the crowd, looking for Siri.

Then he saw her.

She was exactly as she appeared on video, wearing a light blue dress, her hair pulled back, holding a small sign that said, “Welcome, Marcus.

” with a handdrawn smiley face.

When their eyes met, she smiled.

A genuine warm smile that made everything.

The long flight, the jet lag, the concerns from Nathan completely worth it.

“Marcus,” she said as he approached, her voice exactly as he remembered from their calls.

“Welcome to Thailand.

” They hugged, awkward at first, then more naturally.

She smelled like jasmine and something sweet he couldn’t identify.

I can’t believe you’re really here, she said.

I can’t believe I’m here, he replied.

You’re more beautiful in person, she blushed.

You are very handsome also.

Come, I have taxi waiting.

The drive through Bangkok at midnight was overwhelming.

Bright lights, heavy traffic even at that hour.

Street food vendors still operating, the humid heat wrapping around everything.

Siri sat close to him in the taxi, pointing out landmarks, chattering nervously about the weather, asking about his flight.

She had booked him a room at the hotel where she worked, a small boutique place in a quieter neighborhood.

Not party area, she explained.

More authentic Bangkok.

When they arrived, she helped him check in, speaking rapid tie to the front desk.

Clark cler, “Your room is nice,” she promised.

I made sure you get best one.

The room was indeed nice, clean and comfortable with a balcony overlooking a small garden.

Marcus dropped his bags and turned to Siri.

Thank you for everything, for meeting me, for arranging this.

She stepped closer, looking up at him.

I am happy you are here.

I have thought about this moment for a long time.

They kissed, gentle and tentative, and Marcus felt something click into place.

This was real.

She was real.

They were really going to have a chance.

The next two weeks passed in a blur of happiness Marcus had never experienced.

Siri took vacation time from the hotel to show him Bangkok.

They visited the Grand Palace, took a boat tour through the floating markets, ate street food that made Marcus’s eyes water but tasted incredible.

Siri introduced him to her friends, a group of women who worked at various hotels around the city.

They welcomed Marcus warmly, asked him questions about America, teased Siri about finally finding a good man.

You are very lucky girl, one friend said to Siri in English.

Marcus is very nice, better than Thai men.

Siri laughed.

I know.

That is why I look outside Thailand.

On his fifth day there, Siri took Marcus to meet her family.

Her father had passed away when she was young, but she had an aunt and uncle who lived in a small house about an hour outside Bangkok.

The aunt spoke no English, but hugged Marcus tightly when they arrived.

The uncle, a retired taxi driver, spoke broken English and asked Marcus about his job, his intentions towards Siri.

“I love your niece very much,” Marcus said carefully.

“I want to make her happy.

” “The uncle translated for the aunt who beamed and said something in Thai.

She says you have good heart,” the uncle reported.

“She can see it in your eyes.

” They had dinner together, sitting on mats on the floor, eating food.

the aunt had spent all day preparing.

It was the most authentic Thai meal Marcus had experienced.

Nothing like the restaurants in Portland.

After dinner, Siri’s aunt showed him photo albums, pictures of Siri as a child, as a teenager, with her mother at various ages.

“Look,” Siri said, pointing to a photo.

“This is my mother’s house in our village.

It is very simple, but it is home.

You would like it there, Marcus.

Very peaceful.

I would love to see it someday, Marcus said honestly.

As they drove back to Bangkok that night, Siri was quiet.

Everything okay? Marcus asked.

I’m just very happy, she said.

My family likes you.

That means everything to me.

Marcus squeezed her hand.

I like them, too.

I like everything about your life here.

On his 10th day in Bangkok, after a romantic dinner at a Riverside restaurant, Marcus asked Siri the question that had been building.

What happens when I leave? Will you visit me in Oregon? Siri looked down at her hands.

That is very expensive, Marcus.

International flights, visa fees.

I would need to save for many months.

What if I paid for your ticket? Marcus offered.

I want you to see my life, meet my family.

She shook her head firmly.

No, I cannot accept that.

It is too much money.

But what if we made plans like a real plan for our future? Siri met his eyes.

What kind of plan? I want to marry you, Marcus said simply.

I know it’s fast.

I know we need more time, but I know what I feel.

I want to spend my life with you.

Tears filled Siri’s eyes.

I want that too, but there is so much to arrange.

Where would we live? How would I leave my job? My family.

We’ll figure it out.

Marcus promised.

I can come back soon.

We can make plans.

Do everything right.

I just need to know you want this, too.

She nodded, wiping her eyes.

I want this.

I want to be your wife.

They kissed and Marcus felt his entire future rearranging itself.

He would return to Thailand as soon as possible.

They would build a life together.

Whether that meant her moving to Oregon or him finding work in Bangkok or some combination.

Details could be worked out.

Love was what mattered.

Marcus flew back to Portland on May 1st with promises to return by July.

The goodbye at the airport was tearful.

Siri, clinging to him until the last possible moment.

I will miss you every day, she whispered.

I will miss you more, he replied.

We’ll talk every day just like before, except now we know it’s real.

Back in Oregon, Marcus threw himself into planning their future.

He researched visa requirements for bringing a Thai spouse to the United States.

K1 fiance visa would take 6 to 8 months to process.

Marriage in Thailand first would be faster but complicated.

He called immigration lawyers, read forums, made spreadsheets of timelines and costs.

The process was expensive, around $5,000 just for application fees and paperwork.

But Marcus didn’t care.

He started a savings plan, cutting unnecessary expenses.

Nathan noticed immediately.

You seem different, Nathan said during their Sunday dinner.

Happy different.

It went well then.

It was incredible.

Marcus said she’s incredible.

Her family loved me.

I loved them.

We’re getting married.

Nathan’s fork stopped halfway to his mouth.

Married? You’ve known her four months.

5 months by the time I go back, Marcus corrected.

And when you know, you know.

Remember you and Sarah got engaged after 6 months? That was different.

Sarah interjected.

We lived in the same city, spent time together in normal situations.

You’ve had one vacation together.

That doesn’t mean it’s not real, Marcus said, feeling his defenses rise again.

We video call every day.

I know her better than I knew Rebecca after a year of dating.

Nathan and Sarah exchanged another one of those looks that made Marcus want to leave.

“Look, we’re happy you’re happy,” Nathan said.

“We just want you to be smart about this.

” “Have you sent her money yet?” “No,” Marcus said firmly.

“And I won’t.

She has her own job, her own money.

She’s not asking for anything.

” Good.

Keep it that way, Nathan advised.

These situations can turn very quickly.

Marcus bit back an angry response.

His brother meant well, but didn’t understand.

What Marcus and Siri had was real, built on genuine connection and shared values.

The distance was hard, but manageable.

His second trip to Thailand was already booked for early July, just 2 months away.

But two weeks after returning from Thailand, Siri sent a message that changed things.

Marcus, I have some difficult news.

The hotel where I work is having financial problems because of low season.

My manager says they have to reduce staff hours.

My salary will be cut by almost half.

I don’t know how I will pay rent and send money to my aunt who helped raise me when my mother was sick.

Marcus’ first instinct was to offer help, but he heard Nathan’s warning in his head.

How much do you need? He typed.

Siri’s response came quickly.

No, Marcus.

I cannot ask you for money.

That is not why I tell you this.

I will find a way.

Maybe second job.

But I wanted you to know why I might not be able to talk as much.

I will be working more hours.

I can help.

Marcus typed.

It’s not charity.

It’s us building a future together.

If you need help now, I want to provide it.

You will be my wife.

Her response took longer this time.

Marcus, you are so kind.

But it is not your responsibility.

The amount I need is too much anyway.

About $800 per month until high season starts in November.

That would help with rent and money for my aunt.

$800 a month was significant but manageable if Marcus cut back on his own expenses.

It was less than he spent on his car payment and insurance combined.

If he sold the accord and bought something cheaper, he could easily cover it.

Siri, I want to do this.

He typed, you took care of your mother.

Now, let me take care of you.

Just until we get married and you’re here with me.

Then you won’t have these worries.

Are you sure? She wrote.

I feel bad asking this.

You’re not asking.

I’m offering.

He replied.

I’ll set up a transfer tomorrow.

Tell me your bank details.

That night, Marcus set up a monthly automatic transfer of 800 dolls to Siri’s Bangkok bank account.

It felt good being able to help.

She sent him a video message that night, tears in her eyes, thanking him over and over.

You are saving my life, Marcus.

I promise when I am your wife, I will make you so happy.

You will never regret helping me.

I already don’t regret it,” he replied.

“We’re a team now.

” Marcus’s second trip to Thailand in July was even better than the first.

“Siri seemed more relaxed now that her financial stress was resolved, and they spent two weeks exploring northern Thailand together.

They visited Chiang Mai, stayed in a small guest house, took a cooking class, rode elephants at an ethical sanctuary.

Marcus proposed officially at sunset on a mountain temple, getting down on one knee with the ring he’d bought.

Siri cried and said yes, and tourists around them applauded.

They began making concrete plans.

Siri would apply for the K1 visa as soon as Marcus returned to the States and filed the initial petition.

If everything went smoothly, she could be in Oregon by March.

They talked about the wedding.

They would have small ceremony followed by a bigger celebration in Thailand so her family could attend.

Marcus would need to make several more trips during the visa process, both to maintain the relationship evidence required for the application and because he simply couldn’t stand being away from her for too long.

The monthly 800 dotto transfers continued.

In September, Siri mentioned that her aunt was having health problems and needed to see a specialist in Bangkok.

The cost would be about 1,200 dodles for tests and initial treatment.

Marcus sent it immediately.

In October, Siri’s apartment had a plumbing disaster that required expensive repairs, another $900.

In November, Siri said the hotel owners were impressed by her management during the low season and wanted her to invest in a partnership opportunity, becoming part owner for $3,500.

It would mean better income long-term and make the visa application stronger by showing she had business ties and assets.

Marcus took out a personal loan to cover it.

Each time Siri protested that it was too much, that she felt guilty, that she would pay him back.

Each time, Marcus insisted it was fine.

It was their money now.

They were building a life together.

By his third trip in November, Marcus had sent Siri over $8,000 in various payments and transfers.

His credit card debt was growing, but he justified it as temporary.

Once Siri was in the United States, she could work, contribute, and they would pay everything down together.

During that third trip, Marcus met more of Siri’s extended family.

cousins, more aunts and uncles, people who lived in the same village where she grew up.

They welcomed him warmly, though none spoke English.

Siri translated and they asked the usual questions about America, about his intentions, about when he would take their Siri away from them.

“We will come back to visit often,” Marcus promised through Siri.

This will always be her home, too.

One afternoon while Siri was at work, Marcus decided to surprise her by bringing lunch to the hotel.

He had never actually visited her workplace, though she had shown it to him via video call several times.

He hired a taxi and gave the driver the address Siri had written down for him.

The hotel was smaller than he’d imagined from the videos, a three-story building that had seen better days.

Marcus walked into the small lobby with a bag of food from Siri’s favorite restaurant.

A young woman at the front desk looked up, smiled.

“Hello, can I help you?” “Do you speak English?” Marcus asked.

“Yes, little bit,” she replied.

“Is Saporn here?” “Siri, the manager.

” The girl looked confused.

“Siri? We don’t have Siri working here.

” Marcus felt a cold sensation in his stomach.

Sir porn thaxine.

She manages this hotel.

She’s told me about it many times.

The girl shook her head.

Sorry, I work here two years.

No Siri manager.

Only manager is Kun Samchai.

He is man.

Maybe different hotel.

Same name.

Marcus pulled out his phone, showed her a picture of Siri.

Do you know this woman? Does she work here? The girl studied the photo.

No, sorry.

Never see her.

Maybe she work before I start.

Can I speak to the manager? Marcus asked, his voice strained.

The girl made a phone call, spoke rapid Thai, then nodded.

Somchi will come.

A few minutes later, a middle-aged Thai man emerged from a back office.

I am manager, he said in careful English.

Can I help? Marcus went through the same explanation, showing Siri’s picture.

The manager studied it carefully, then shook his head.

I am sorry.

I have managed this hotel for 7 years.

This woman has never worked here.

Perhaps she confused the name of the hotel.

There are many hotels in Bangkok.

Marcus felt the room spinning.

He thanked them and stumbled back outside into the Bangkok heat.

He found a bench and sat down heavily.

There had to be an explanation.

Maybe she had lied about where she worked for some reason.

Maybe she was protecting her privacy.

He called her.

It went to voicemail.

He texted, “Siri, I went to bring you lunch at the hotel, but they said you don’t work there.

I’m confused.

Can you call me?” An hour later, she called back.

Marcus, I am so sorry.

I just saw your message.

I should have told you.

I don’t work at that hotel anymore.

I was embarrassed to tell you.

When did you leave? Marcus asked.

About 1 month ago, she said the partnership opportunity I told you about.

It was at a different hotel.

A nicer one.

I managed there now.

Why didn’t you tell me? Marcus asked, trying to keep the suspicion out of his voice.

I felt bad because you helped me with the money to stay at the old hotel, she said.

Then I left anyway for better opportunity.

I was afraid you would think I wasted your money.

The explanation made sense, sort of.

Marcus wanted to believe it.

Where do you work now? Siri named a hotel in a different district.

It’s much bigger, better hotel, more responsibilities.

Can I visit you there? bring you that lunch I was carrying around.

She hesitated.

Today is not good day.

Very busy with guests checking in.

Tomorrow, tomorrow he would be on a plane back to Oregon.

His twoe trip was ending.

Next time you come, she promised.

I will give you full tour.

Okay, Marcus said, though something nagged at him.

I love you.

I love you too, Marcus, she replied.

See you tomorrow before your flight.

The fourth and fifth trips to Thailand over the next four months followed similar patterns.

Marcus would arrive.

He and Siri would spend blissful weeks together exploring, eating, making love, talking about their future.

She still hadn’t visited the new hotel.

Something always coming up.

She was busy or renovations were happening or it wasn’t a good day.

The monthly transfers continued, sometimes with additional emergency amounts.

Siri’s aunt needed more medical care.

Siri’s business partnership required additional investment.

Siri’s apartment had another problem.

This time, electrical.

By March, Marcus had sent Siri over $15,000.

His credit card debt had ballooned to $12,000.

He had taken out a second personal loan.

His savings account was nearly empty, but the visa process was moving forward.

The initial petition had been approved.

They were waiting for the interview appointment at the US embassy in Bangkok.

Once she got the visa, once she was in Oregon, once they were married, all the financial stress would be worth it.

During his fifth trip in March, Marcus noticed things that troubled him.

Siri was often unavailable when he tried to reach her by phone or video call.

Her explanations were always reasonable.

She was with a guest.

She was in a meeting.

Her phone battery died, but the frequency bothered him.

One evening, while they were having dinner at a restaurant, Marcus saw Siri’s phone light up with a message notification.

Before she could grab it, he glimpsed the preview.

Miss you, baby.

Can’t wait to see you next week.

Heart emoji.

Siri snatched the phone, her face flushing.

Who was that? Marcus asked carefully.

My cousin, Siri said quickly.

She lives in Phuket.

She comes to Bangkok next week.

Your cousin calls you baby.

It’s Thai way.

Siri said defensively.

We use many nicknames.

It’s normal.

Marcus wanted to believe her, but doubt crept in.

That night in the hotel, he couldn’t sleep.

While Siri slept beside him, Marcus carefully took her phone from the nightstand.

His hands shook.

He had never violated someone’s privacy like this before, but he needed to know.

The phone was unlocked.

Marcus opened WhatsApp.

There were conversations with people whose names he didn’t recognize.

Most were in Thai script.

he couldn’t read.

But there were also chats in English.

One with someone named Blake with an Australian flag emoji.

Another with Oliver and a British flag.

One with Stefan and a German flag.

Marcus opened the chat with Blake.

The most recent messages from 2 days ago were intimate, calling each other darling, talking about Blake’s upcoming visit in April, how much they missed each other.

Marcus felt like he was going to vomit.

He checked the chat with Oliver.

Similar messages talking about a trip in May.

Stefan’s chat mentioned a visit in June, his hands shaking.

Marcus carefully placed the phone back on the nightstand.

He lay in the dark, his mind racing.

There had to be an explanation.

These could be old chats, friendships, nothing romantic, but the dates were current.

The language was intimate.

In the morning, he confronted her.

Siri, who is Blake? Her face went carefully neutral.

Blake, he is friend from Australia.

We met when he stayed at my hotel.

Why? I saw messages on your phone last night, Marcus admitted.

I’m sorry for looking, but I saw that first message and I got worried and I found chats with several men.

Intimate chats.

Siri’s expression hardened.

You went through my phone.

That is invasion of privacy.

I know and I’m sorry, but you’re not answering my question.

Who are these men? They are friends, Siri said firmly.

People I meet through work.

You are being jealous and controlling.

This is not good.

Marcus 84.

Friends don’t call each other darling.

Marcus pressed.

Friends don’t talk about missing each other the way you were talking.

It is just friendly way.

Siri insisted.

In Thailand, we are more affectionate with friends than Americans.

You are misunderstanding culture.

The fight escalated.

Siri accused him of not trusting her, of being paranoid, of ruining their relationship with suspicion.

Marcus wanted to believe her cultural explanation, wanted to dismiss his concerns as misunderstanding.

Eventually, he apologized for looking at her phone.

Siri cried, said she forgave him, but that he had hurt her deeply by not trusting her.

The rest of the trip was strained.

Marcus flew home with more questions than answers, but he couldn’t bring himself to end it.

He had invested so much emotionally and financially.

The visa process was almost complete.

Walking away now would mean all of that had been for nothing.

Back in Portland, Marcus’ anxiety grew.

He started paying closer attention to the timing of Siri’s availability.

She was always free to talk in certain windows, early morning Thailand time, late evening, but during midday and afternoon, she was often unreachable.

He began testing her, calling at random times.

The results were inconsistent.

Sometimes she answered cheerfully.

Other times, she sounded irritated, distracted.

In April, Nathan invited Marcus to lunch without Sarah present.

just the brothers.

Something’s wrong, Nathan said after they ordered.

You look terrible.

You’re losing weight.

You seem stressed all the time.

What’s going on with this Thailand situation? Marcus considered lying, but was too exhausted.

I think there might be other guys.

Nathan’s face remained carefully neutral.

Tell me everything.

Marcus laid it out.

The messages he’d seen.

Siri’s explanations, his doubts, his inability to let go.

Nathan listened without interrupting.

When Marcus finished, Nathan was quiet for a long moment.

How much money have you sent her? About $15,000, Marcus admitted.

Maybe $16,000.

Jesus Christ, Nathan breathed.

And you still don’t know where she really works.

She says she changed hotels.

I never made it to the new one.

Marcus, do you hear yourself? Nathan leaned forward.

This is a scam.

Classic romance scam.

The woman who doesn’t exist.

The constant need for money.

The explanations that always make just enough sense to keep you hooked.

She’s probably running the same scam on multiple guys at once.

I’ve seen her, Marcus protested weakly.

talked to her, met her family.

“That doesn’t mean any of it is real,” Nathan said gently.

“People hire fake family members for this stuff.

The hotel could have been rented for a day.

Everything you’ve experienced could have been staged.

” “No,” Marcus shook his head.

“You don’t understand.

What we have is real.

” “I know her.

” “Do you?” Nathan asked.

“Do you really?” because it sounds like you don’t know where she works.

You’ve seen her communicating intimately with other men and she’s taken thousands of dollars from you.

Marcus felt anger rising.

Why can’t you just be happy for me? Why does everyone have to be so negative? Because we love you and we can see what you can’t see when you’re in the middle of it.

Nathan said firmly.

Look, I have a friend who works in private investigation.

He has contacts in Thailand.

Let me hire someone to check her out, verify her story.

If everything is legitimate, great.

I’ll apologize and pay for your wedding.

But if it’s not, you need to know before you send more money or marry this woman.

No, Marcus said immediately.

That’s insane.

I’m not spying on my fianceé.

You already spied on her phone.

Nathan pointed out.

This is just verifying what she’s told you.

If it’s all true, what’s the harm? The harm is showing I don’t trust her.

Marcus said she would never forgive me.

They left lunch without resolution.

But Nathan’s words planted a seed.

Over the next week, Marcus found himself thinking about it constantly.

What if his brother was right? What if everything had been staged? He booked his sixth trip to Thailand for early May, determined to get answers.

He would surprise Siri, show up unannounced, see her real life instead of the carefully curated version she showed him.

But before he could make that trip, Nathan called.

I did it, Nathan said without preamble.

I hired the investigator.

His name is Somchi Watana.

He’s been watching Siri for 3 days.

Marcus should have been angry, but instead he felt a strange relief.

What did he find? Nathan was quiet for a moment.

You need to sit down.

Marcus sat.

Tell me.

She’s running the same scam on at least five other guys that we know of, Nathan said.

Different men from different countries.

Each one visits at different times.

Each one sends her money.

Each one thinks he’s the only one.

Marcus felt the room tilt.

How do you know? Pictures, Nathan said quietly.

Video footage, documentation.

Somchi has been watching her apartment.

In the last 3 days, three different Western men have visited, each at different times.

None of them overlap.

She schedules them carefully.

And Marcus, none of these guys seem to know about each other.

They all think they’re in exclusive relationships with her.

How much? Marcus asked numbly.

How much has she stolen from all of us? We don’t know exact amounts yet, Nathan said.

But Somchi estimates based on the standard patterns of these scams, probably $30,000 to $40,000 per victim.

If there are six of you, that’s up to a4 million.

Marcus barely made it to the bathroom before vomiting.

when he emerged pale and shaking.

Nathan was standing in the hallway.

I’m sorry, Nathan said.

I really am.

But you needed to know.

Marcus nodded numbly.

His phone buzzed.

A message from Siri.

Good morning, my love.

I miss you.

Only 3 weeks until you come see me again.

Counting every day.

Something broke inside Marcus.

He looked at Nathan.

I need to see the evidence.

Everything.

I need to know exactly what she’s been doing.

Nathan nodded.

Somchi can meet with us tomorrow.

He has it all documented.

That night, Marcus didn’t sleep.

He thought about every moment with Siri, every conversation, every promise.

He tried to identify the lies, but couldn’t separate them from the truth.

If their entire relationship had been fiction, who was the woman he had fallen in love with? Did she exist at all? Somchi Watana was a former Bangkok police officer who now ran a private investigation agency specializing in romance scam cases.

His office was in a nondescript building in a Bangkok commercial district, and he met with Marcus and Nathan via video call since they were still in Oregon.

Mr.

Portland, Somchai said in excellent English.

I am sorry to be meeting you under these circumstances.

I have investigated many cases like yours, but each one is still sad for me to see.

Thank you for looking into this, Marcus said, his voice flat.

Can you walk me through what you found? Sai shared his screen, showing a detailed report with photos, videos, and timeline documentation.

I have been surveilling Miss Sriorn Thaxin for one week now,” he began.

I can confirm she uses this name with all the men, though her real legal name is different.

In the past 7 days, she has met with four different Western men at different locations.

He showed photos.

The first was Marcus himself, though from his previous trip.

The photo was taken outside a restaurant, showing Marcus and Siri laughing together.

The second photo showed Siri with a different man, heavy set with thinning brown hair, dressed in business casual clothes.

This is Blake Richardson, Australian citizen, age 48, works in mining industry.

Somchi narrated, he visited Bangkok 2 weeks ago for 4 days.

Based on surveillance, he believes he is engaged to Miss Sriorn.

He has been visiting her every 6 to 8 weeks for approximately 18 months.

The third photo showed Siri with an older, distinguished-looking man with gray hair.

Oliver Hartley, British citizen, age 61.

Retired teacher, Somchi continued.

He visited 3 weeks ago.

He also believes he is engaged to Miss Seriporn and is in process of bringing her to UK on spouse visa.

The fourth photo showed a tall thin man with blonde hair.

Stefan Verer, German citizen, age 45, software engineer.

He visited 5 weeks ago.

Same pattern, engagement, visa process, regular visits.

Marcus stared at the photos, his mind unable to fully process what he was seeing.

These men all think they’re marrying her.

All of them, Somchi confirmed.

And there are two more that I have not yet photographed, but confirmed through other sources.

Raymond Hughes, Canadian, and Daniel Cooper, American from Florida.

All six of you are on different visit schedules.

She is very organized, very careful.

She never lets your visits overlap.

How does she keep track of everyone? Marcus asked numbly.

Somchi pulled up photos of documents.

She has detailed spreadsheets.

I was able to obtain photos of her planning documents through a source who works in her building.

Each of you has a file with visit dates, amounts sent, personal information, even notes about your personalities and what convinces you to send money.

Marcus felt bile rising again.

Can I see my file? Somchi hesitated.

“Mr.

Portland, I don’t think that is wise.

” “I want to see it,” Marcus insisted.

Somchi pulled up a photo of a document.

Marcus’ name was at the top.

Below it, detailed entries.

“March trip successful.

Subject very trusting.

Good for long-term extraction.

Sent 800 Todd dollars monthly starting April.

Hotel story accepted without verification.

Aunt medical story successful for $1,200.

Partnership story successful for $3,500.

Subject has strong family guilt use frequently.

Subject has savings and access to personal loans.

Estimated remaining extraction potential.

$10,000 to $15,000 before visa interview, possibly more after arrival in US.

Marcus read it three times, each word landing like a physical blow.

The woman he loved had reduced him to a subject to be extracted from.

She had calculated his emotional weak points, his financial capacity, his gullibility.

He was a resource to be mined, nothing more.

What about the family? Marcus asked.

The aunt and uncle I met.

Hired, Somchi said bluntly.

Common practice in these operations.

Pay local people to play family members for a day.

The photos she showed you might have been real childhood photos, but the people you met were not her real family.

And the hotel partnership she invested in.

There is no partnership.

Somchi said no hotel investment, no ownership.

The money you sent went directly to her personal accounts and was used for living expenses and probably saved for eventual retirement.

Everything was a lie, Marcus said to himself as much as to Somchai.

Not everything, Somchi said gently.

Her feelings may have been partially real in the moments with you.

These scammers sometimes develop genuine affection for their victims while still maintaining the deception.

It is complicated psychology.

But the relationship as you understood it, that was a lie.

Yes.

Do the other men know about each other? Marcus asked.

Not yet, Sai said.

But I have contact information for all of them.

Part of my service is helping victims connect with each other and coordinate legal action.

Are you willing to be part of that process? Marcus looked at Nathan, who nodded encouragingly.

Yes, Marcus said.

I want to meet them.

I want to know the whole story and then I want to confront her.

I want her to know that I know.

Confrontation can be dangerous.

Somchi warned.

She has connections possibly to organized crime.

These scams are not run by lone individuals.

There are networks.

I don’t care.

Marcus said with a firmness he didn’t know he possessed.

I’m going to Bangkok.

I’m going to confront her in person, and I want the other men there, too.

They deserve to know what’s been done to them.

Somchi studied Marcus for a long moment.

Very well.

I will begin reaching out to the others.

When do you want to do this? Marcus checked his calendar.

In 2 weeks, I’m supposed to fly there for my seventh trip anyway.

She’s expecting me.

Only this time, I won’t be the only one showing up.

Somchi Watana spent the next 10 days carefully contacting the other five men in Siri’s operation.

Each conversation followed a similar pattern.

Shock, denial, anger, finally acceptance.

Blake Richardson, the Australian mining executive, was the hardest to convince.

“This is bullshit,” Blake said during his video call with Somchai.

Siri loves me.

We’re getting married next month in Sydney.

I’ve met her family, spent weeks with her.

You’re trying to scam me by making up these stories.

I can provide evidence, Somchi said calmly.

Photos, documentation, the existence of five other men she is simultaneously engaged to.

One of them, Marcus Portland from the United States, wants to meet with all of you in Bangkok.

He is willing to share his experiences.

Blake was silent.

Then how much has she taken from me? Somchi consulted his notes.

Based on what I’ve been able to verify, approximately $42,000 over 20 months.

Blake made a choking sound.

That’s my entire savings, my retirement account.

I took out loans.

Oliver Hartley, the retired British teacher, responded with heartbreak rather than anger.

I really loved her, he told Samchai.

After my wife died 3 years ago, I thought I’d never feel that way again.

Siri made me feel alive.

I know this is difficult, Somchi said.

But meeting the other victims will help you process this.

They understand what you’re going through.

How much did I give her? Oliver asked quietly.

Around $38,000, Samchai reported.

She told me her mother was sick and needed treatment, Oliver said.

She told me her apartment building was being sold and she needed money for a new deposit.

She told me she wanted to start a business and I could be a partner.

All lies.

All lies.

Schi confirmed.

Stefan Verer, the German software engineer, was the most analytical.

He wanted to see all the evidence, cross reference dates, understand the mechanics of the operation.

When Somchi showed him the overlapping visit schedules, Stefan created a spreadsheet of his own.

“She is very efficient,” Stefan said with a kind of horrified admiration.

“Never a wasted moment.

Each man scheduled precisely to maximize time with her while minimizing risk of overlap.

How did she manage the emotional labor of maintaining six separate relationships?” Sociopathy, Somchi suggested, or extreme compartmentalization.

Some people are very skilled at this.

I gave her $35,000, Stefan calculated.

Plus gifts, plus travel expenses.

She told me she was investing in a hotel.

I thought I was becoming a business partner.

You are not alone in believing that story.

Somchi said she used similar narratives with multiple victims.

Raymond Hughes, the Canadian father of two, broke down during his call with Somchai.

My kids, Raymon said, “My daughters asked me why I was always sending money to Thailand.

I told them I was helping a friend.

They thought I was being scammed and I defended her.

I told them they didn’t understand.

” “How much?” Somchi asked gently.

$29,000, Raymond said.

Not as much as some of the others, but it’s money I needed for my daughter’s college funds.

She told me her brother was in a motorcycle accident and needed surgery.

She sent me fake medical bills.

I couldn’t verify them because I don’t read Thai.

Somchi explained the plan to bring all six men together for a confrontation.

It will not be easy, Samchai warned.

Seeing each other will make the betrayal more real, but it will also help you understand that you did nothing wrong.

This is a sophisticated criminal operation.

You were targeted, studied, and exploited by professionals.

Daniel Cooper, the American widowerower from Florida, was the last to be contacted.

At 67, he was the oldest victim and had lost his wife to cancer 2 years before meeting Siri.

She gave me a reason to keep living, Daniel said, his voice thick with emotion.

After Martha died, I didn’t think I’d ever be happy again.

Siri made me believe in love again.

How much? Sai asked, though he already knew.

$51,000, Daniel said.

The most of any victim.

The insurance money from Martha’s death.

I was going to use it to help my grandchildren, but Siri said if I invested in her business, we’d have enough for everyone.

She said we’d live in Thailand half the year, Florida the other half.

We had plans.

He broke down completely.

Somchi waited patiently.

Mr.

Cooper, he said finally, your wife’s insurance money was meant to provide for you and your family.

Miss Seriporn stole that from you through calculated deception, but you can still reclaim some of what was taken.

By helping prosecute her, you protect future victims.

Daniel agreed to come to Bangkok.

All six men would converge on May 15th for what Somchi was calling the confrontation meeting.

Marcus would be there, too, making his promised seventh trip to Thailand.

But this time, Siri wouldn’t know what was waiting for her.

Marcus Portland landed in Bangkok on May 14th, a day earlier than Siri expected.

He didn’t tell her he was coming early, claiming flight issues when she asked about his arrival time.

He checked into a different hotel, not the boutique place where they usually stayed.

Somchai picked him up from the airport personally, a courtesy he extended to someone who had become more than a client.

You look terrible, Somchi said bluntly as Marcus got into his car.

Have you been sleeping? Not really, Marcus admitted.

Every time I close my eyes, I see her.

I keep trying to figure out what was real and what was lies.

Perhaps nothing was real, Somchi suggested.

Perhaps everything was performance.

But I felt something, Marcus insisted.

When we were together, I felt a connection.

Maybe I invented it in my head, but I felt it.

Samchai nodded.

The best scammers make you feel something genuine.

That is their gift and their weapon.

They met at Somchi’s office that evening.

The other five men had arrived throughout the day.

Marcus walked into a conference room where five strangers sat around a table, all looking as emotionally destroyed as he felt.

Somchi made introductions.

Marcus found himself shaking hands with Blake Richardson, who had a crushing grip and looked like he wanted to hit something.

Oliver Hartley, who seemed to have aged a decade in the weeks since learning the truth.

Stefan Verer, who immediately started asking Marcus technical questions about the timeline of his relationship with Siri.

Raymond Hughes, who couldn’t make eye contact, and Daniel Cooper, the elderly widowerower who looked absolutely shattered.

For the first hour, they just shared their stories.

Each man described how he’d met Siri, the progression of the relationship, the money sent, the promises made.

The similarities were eerie.

She used the same stories.

Blake said the sick mother, the hotel job, the partnership opportunity.

With me, it was a sick brother who needed surgery, Daniel said.

and she needed money to repair her apartment after a flood.

She told me her mother had cancer, Raymond added.

I sent $8,000 for chemotherapy treatments.

Stefan had created a comprehensive spreadsheet.

I have analyzed all our experiences, he said, sharing his screen.

She uses a rotation of approximately 15 different emergency scenarios.

She tailor them to each victim’s psychology.

Marcus, she used family guilt because you lost your mother.

Daniel, she exploited your recent loss and desire to help others.

Raymond, your protective instincts toward family.

Each of us received personalized manipulation.

How did she keep it all straight? Oliver asked.

Six different men, six different stories, different visit schedules.

The spreadsheets Schi found.

Stefan said she is organized, methodical.

This is her job.

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