Muslim Extremists Set Fire to a Church With Worshippers Inside – What Happened Next Defies Logic

I want to start by telling you something that might be hard to hear, but I need you to hear it because it is the truth and the truth is the only thing I have left to give.

I was not a good man.

I want you to understand that fully before we go any further.

Not in the way people say it when they are being modest or when they want sympathy or when they are trying to make themselves sound worse than they actually were so that their story sounds more dramatic.

I mean it in the truest most honest sense of those words.

I was not a good man.

I did terrible things to innocent people.

I hurt families.

I destroyed things that other people had built with their hands and their prayers and their tears.

And I did all of it while believing with everything inside me that I was righteous, that I was chosen, that God himself was proud of me.

That is the most frightening thing I can tell you.

Not what I did, but that I did it all with a full heart.

Hello viewers from around the world.

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Thank you and may God bless you as you listen to this powerful testimony.

My name is Tariq Hussein.

I was born in a small village called Kot Adu in the Punjab province of Pakistan.

If you have never heard of Kot Adu, that is not surprising.

It is the kind of place that the rest of the world does not think about.

A place of narrow roads, open fields, sugarcane farms, and the kind of heat in summer that makes the air itself feel heavy, like a wet cloth pressed against your face that you can never quite remove.

A place where everyone knows everyone.

Where the smell of your neighbors cooking drifts through the walls of your home like a permanent guest.

Where your family name carries more weight than anything you could ever accomplish on your own.

And where the rules of life are not written anywhere, but are understood by every single person from the moment they are old enough to understand anything at all.

I grew up in a house that was built of baked brick.

two rooms for six people.

The walls were thick enough to hold the night cool for a few hours after dawn, and then the heat would find its way in.

Regardless, there was a courtyard with a single tree in it, a tree my father had planted the year he was married, and that tree was the first thing I remember loving.

Not consciously, not the way a grown man loves something and can name the feeling, but the way a small child loves a thing that was simply always there that gave shade and the sound of leaves and something to look at when the world inside the house felt too loud.

That courtyard, that tree, those thick baked brick walls.

That is where I first understood that the world had a shape and that the shape of the world depended entirely on who was showing it to you.

My father showed it to me first.

My name is Tariq, which means one who knocks or one who strikes.

My father chose it deliberately.

He told me this when I was old enough to ask.

He said he chose it because he wanted a son who would knock at the doors of this world and not wait to be let in.

He said it with a kind of severity that he used for things he considered important, not harshness exactly, but a weight.

My father was a man who put weight on everything he considered significant.

as though significance itself required a certain heaviness to be believed.

Gulam Hussein was a tall man with a thick beard that was already going gray by the time I was old enough to remember him clearly.

He was not a loud man.

He did not need to be loud.

There was something about the way he carried himself.

Something in the steadiness of his eyes that made people listen when he spoke.

Even the older man in our village listened to my father.

He had a kind of authority that came not from wealth because we were not wealthy and not from education because my father had only a few years of schooling but from something else entirely.

from conviction.

My father believed in things completely and without apology and in a place like Kot Adu.

That kind of belief made a man someone worth listening to.

I wanted to be him.

I want you to understand this.

I was a small boy who watched his father walk through the village with that steady authority.

And I wanted more than almost anything else in my young life to become something like what I saw.

Not just to please him, though I wanted that desperately too, but because my father seemed to me in those early years to possess something that the world around me lacked.

He seemed certain.

and certainty.

When you are a child in a world that feels unpredictable and large and full of things you cannot control, certainty feels like the most valuable thing a man can carry.

My mother Ammy was a different kind of person.

Where my father carried his authority outward into the world, my mother carried hers inward into the home.

She was a small woman with quick hands and a way of moving through a crowded space that was almost like water, finding the gaps, never wasting motion, always arriving where she was needed before.

You had quite realized you needed her.

She was quieter than my father, but not in a passive way.

She was quiet in the way that people are quiet when they have decided that most of what needs to be said does not require words.

She prayed more than my father did which is saying something.

She prayed with a constancy that was almost like breathing.

A continuous interior conversation that she carried with her through the cooking and the washing and the sweeping of the courtyard and the nursing of sick children.

I did not fully understand what she was doing when I was young.

I only knew that she was always somehow somewhere else.

even when she was standing right in front of me that some part of her was always in conversation with something I could not see or hear.

I understand now what that was.

I understand now that my mother was one of the most genuinely prayerful people I have ever known in my life and I believe with everything in me that those prayers of hers offered in that small house in Kot Adu over years and years over all the years of my childhood and my adolescence and the terrible years of my involvement in
things I’m going to tell you about I believe those prayers accumulated somewhere that they were gathered somewhere and held somewhere and that they were part of what reached me in the end.

A mother’s prayers are a powerful thing.

I am convinced of this.

I cannot prove it the way you prove something in a laboratory.

But it is one of the things I know with the kind of knowing that sits in your chest rather than your head.

And I have learned to trust that kind of knowing.

My father was deeply religious.

I want to be careful here because I do not want to blame my father for everything that I became because that would not be fair or honest.

And fairness and honesty are the things I am trying to practice now.

But I also cannot tell you my story without telling you about the world he built around us.

Because the world a father builds around his sons is the first world those sons ever know and it shapes everything.

Not permanently.

Nothing shapes us permanently against our will but it shapes the starting point.

It determines what you have to work against or work through to become something different.

In our home, religion was not something you did on Fridays and then put aside for the rest of the week.

It was the air we breathed.

It was the first thing in the morning and the last thing at night.

My father prayed five times a day without fail and he expected his sons to do the same.

We memorized portions of the Quran before we could multiply numbers in our heads.

We fasted during Ramadan from the time we were young boys even before it was required of us because my father believed that discipline built character and character was everything.

There was a pride in our household about being the kind of Muslims who did not cut corners, who did not find convenient exceptions, who held the line even when holding it was difficult.

I absorbed that pride.

I wore it early the way a child wears whatever his family wraps around him.

I do not say any of this to criticize Islam or my father’s faith.

My father was within the framework of what he knew and believed.

A sincere man trying to raise his sons well according to his understanding of what well meant.

I say it only because I want you to understand the soil in which I grew, the particular composition of it, what it would grow easily and what it would resist.

But alongside the prayers and the fasting and the discipline, there was something else in our home, a kind of suspicion, a line drawn between us and them.

And the them in Kot Adu included most significantly the small community of Christians who lived mostly in the eastern part of our village in an area that people casually called the Isai Moala the Christian neighborhood.

It was not said with hatred always.

Sometimes it was said simply as a description, the way you would say the market neighborhood or the neighborhood near the canal.

But underneath the description was always a feeling the way a familiar road can carry a slight tension in it without anyone being able to say exactly where the tension lives.

The Isai mahala was on the other side of a line.

A line that everyone could feel and nobody had drawn.

A line that had been there before I was born and would be there, I assumed, after I was gone.

It was simply part of the architecture of the village, as natural and unremarkable as the canal that divided the east field from the west.

I remember being perhaps 8 or 9 years old and walking with my father through the edge of the village near that area and a group of Christian children playing in the road had to move aside to let us pass.

My father said nothing.

He did not look at them in a particular way.

He simply walked through the space they had made and I walked beside him.

And I felt in the way children feel things before they have words for them that this was the natural order that the path had cleared itself the way a river clears itself before something significant.

I have thought about that memory many times since about how much a child can absorb from a walk through a village about how a father does not need to say a single word to teach his son where he stands in relation to the world.

My father never told me to hate Christians.

I want to make that clear.

He was not a man who spoke in the language of hatred, at least not openly.

But he spoke in the language of separation.

He reminded us often that we were Muslims, that our identity was sacred, that we should be careful about who we allowed to influence us.

He would say things about Christians that were dismissive rather than violent.

That they were people who had gone astray, that their faith was corrupted, that they were in the hierarchy of things beneath us in the eyes of God.

He did not say this cruy.

He said it the way you state a fact, the way you would say the sky is above the earth.

And when a child hears something stated like a fact without emotion, without drama, he does not question it.

He simply absorbs it.

He adds it to the pile of things he knows to be true.

I grew up knowing very few Christians personally.

The Isaiah Mohala was not a place I visited.

The Christian children mostly went to a different school, a mission school on the edge of the village that had been built by a foreign organization many decades ago.

When I did see Christian children in the village, there was always a distance, not always a hostile distance, but a distance.

They knew it and we knew it.

And nobody needed to explain it because it was simply the way things were.

This is one of the saddest things I can tell you about prejudice.

How quiet it can be.

How it does not always announce itself with cruelty.

How it can simply live in the space between people.

Unremarkable, unremarked upon, as ordinary as the weather.

The church in our village was called St.

Anony’s.

It was not a large building.

It was a simple rectangular structure with whitewashed walls that were almost always slightly dirty from the dust of the roads and a small iron cross on the roof that caught the light in the mornings in a way I never paid attention to until it was too late.

I passed it sometimes when I took a longer route to the market.

I never looked at it for long.

It was just there.

A building that belonged to that other world.

The world on the other side of the line.

A building I passed with the vague awareness of it but none of the attention.

I wish now that I had paid more attention.

I wish now that I had looked because that building and the people inside it would become the hinge on which the entire direction of my life would turn.

By the time I was 15, I was already beginning to drift toward the edges of something darker than what I had grown up with.

Kadu, like many rural towns in Pakistan, was not without its tensions.

There were groups of young men older than me who gathered in certain places and spoke in certain ways about certain things, about the state of Islam, about the enemies of the faith, about the duty of every Muslim man to protect what was sacred.

I was drawn to these gatherings the way young men without a strong sense of direction are often drawn to places where they are given one.

There is something I need to say about being a teenage boy in a place like Cot Adu.

And I think any honest man who grew up poor in a small town anywhere in the world will understand this even if the details of his own story are very different.

When you are that age and you are poor and the world around you feels like it has already decided what you will be and what you will never be.

You are hungry.

Not always hungry for food though sometimes that too.

Hungry for meaning.

Hungry for importance.

Hungry for the feeling that your life is connected to something larger than the narrow road between your father’s house and the sugarce fields.

Hungry to matter.

That is the word for it.

You want to matter.

You want someone to look at you and see something worth looking at.

You want to feel the weight of significance in your own chest.

And when someone offers you that feeling, when someone looks at you and says you matter, your actions matter, you are part of something important and sacred and bigger than yourself.

It is very very difficult to walk away from that.

I could not walk away from it.

I was 15 and hungry and my father’s approval was a complicated thing to carry and the world had not offered me much of anything that felt like real significance and these men looked at me and saw something worth recruiting.

That was enough.

That was more than enough.

That is what the group gave me first.

Significance, belonging, the feeling of being seen.

I will not say the full name of the group because I do not want to give them any attention or credibility in this testimony.

But I will tell you that they existed, that they were organized, that they had older men who led them and younger men who were recruited into them, and that their activities range from political meetings and pamphlet distribution to intimidation, property destruction, and violence against religious minorities.

They operated with a kind of confidence that came from knowing that in our community and with certain local authorities they had protection.

Not always official protection, but the protection of silence, the protection of a community that had already decided that the Christians in its midst were a problem to be managed rather than neighbors to be respected.

the protection of a world that had already drawn the line and decided which side of it deserved defending.

I was formally brought into the group when I was 17 years old.

There was no ceremony, no official oath.

It was more gradual than that.

You spent enough time around them.

You shared enough of their beliefs.

You proved yourself willing to do what was asked.

And one day you simply were one of them.

You belonged.

And belonging when you have been quietly hungry for it for years.

When you have been watching your father receive authority and respect and wondering if any of that is coming for you feels like coming home.

Feels like the first warm meal after a long cold road.

I have spent years being honest about why I was drawn in because it would be easy and comfortable to say I was simply fooled that I was an innocent victim of sophisticated manipulation.

But that would not be completely true.

The truth is more uncomfortable.

I was drawn in because something in me wanted what they were offering.

the meaning, the brotherhood, the certainty, the sense of being on the right side of something large.

I wanted all of that.

The ideology was the container for the wanting, not the cause of it.

The cause was in me long before they found me.

In the beginning, my involvement was not violent.

I distributed pamphlets.

I attended rallies.

I stood outside the church on certain occasions with other young men in a way that was meant to be threatening without being technically illegal.

I watched the Christians go in and out of the church and I felt something that I can only describe now with great shame as contempt.

I thought they were weak.

I thought their faith was an embarrassment.

I thought their presence in our Muslim village was an inconvenience that needed to eventually be resolved.

I want to stop on that word contempt because it is worth examining.

Contempt is different from hatred in an important way.

Hatred acknowledges the humanity of its object and then refuses it.

Contempt does not even get that far.

Contempt does not see the full human being at all.

It sees something lesser, something beneath the normal register of consideration.

And contempt is one of the most dangerous things a human being can feel about another human being because it makes cruelty feel like something other than cruelty.

It makes it feel like correction, like simple logic, like the natural result of things being arranged properly.

I looked at the Christian families in court adu with contempt.

And because of that contempt, I did not see them.

Not really.

I saw a category, a problem, a symbol of something I had been told needed to be addressed.

I did not see the specific human faces.

the mothers and fathers, the children sitting in that mission school with books in their hands, the old men and women who came to that whitewash church every Sunday because it was the anchor of everything they believed to be true and holy.

I did not see Pastor Emmanuel, though I must have passed him in the village dozens of times.

A quiet man going about his life, praying for his congregation, wondering in the nights whether they were safe.

I did not see any of them.

That is what ideology does.

It does not just fill you with bad ideas.

It empties you of the capacity to see.

It covers the face of the other person with a concept and you stop being able to perceive the face underneath.

This is one of the mechanisms of evil.

Not the dramatic kind, not the kind that announces itself with obvious monstrosity.

The ordinary kind, the quiet, daily structural kind, where you simply stop looking at people as people and start looking at them as things that belong or do not belong, things that serve or threaten, things to be used or removed.

I was 19 years old and I had stopped seeing people and I did not know it.

That is the most frightening thing.

I had not one whisper of awareness that something in me was catastrophically wrong.

I prayed my prayers.

I loved my mother.

I wanted to make my father proud.

I had friends I would have died for.

And I did not see the people in the Isai mala.

By the time I was 19, the things I was willing to do had escalated.

There was an incident where a group of us threw stones at the windows of the church late at night.

There was a time when we surrounded a Christian man who had been accused without any real evidence of saying something disrespectful about Islam and we beat him badly enough that he had to be taken to the hospital in the next town.

I was there.

I participated.

I went home that night and felt nothing except a dull satisfaction.

The particular flatness of a man who has convinced himself that his violence is a form of service.

I am telling you these things not to make you hate me, though I would understand if you did, and not to perform repentance because real repentance is not a performance and it should not feel like one.

I’m telling you these things because I want you to understand exactly who I was before everything changed.

I want you to understand the depth of the darkness so that when I tell you what happened, you will understand what it means that light found even that darkness.

You cannot understand the grace of what came later if you do not understand the darkness that it entered.

The two things are inseparable.

The magnitude of the rescue requires knowing what was being rescued.

The Christian families in Kot Adu lived with a fear that I was part of creating.

I know that now.

I know that the mothers in the Isa Mohala held their children a little tighter on nights when they heard that our group was meeting.

I know that the men of that community prayed not just their regular prayers but desperate prayers, prayers for protection, prayers for peace, prayers that God would somehow hold back the things that were gathering against them.

I know that their pastor, a quiet man named Pastor Emmanuel, whose name I would not learn until much later, spent many nights asking God whether he should take his family and his congregation and leave, whether staying was wisdom or foolishness, whether faith meant standing firm, or whether it was simply
stubbornness dressed up as faithfulness.

I know all of this now because I eventually met these people.

Because I eventually sat across from them and listened.

Because I eventually became someone who was permitted to hear the truth of what those years had been like for them.

And what I heard remade me in ways I am still discovering.

They stayed.

And they kept coming to that little whitewash church with the iron cross on its roof.

every Sunday without fail, and that in a way I could not have understood at the time was its own kind of witness, not a witness directed at me.

They had no idea I would ever become someone who mattered in their story.

They were simply being faithful.

Simply doing what faithful people do when the world is difficult, which is to keep showing up, to keep gathering, to keep lifting their voices.

But I was watching even when I did not know I was watching.

And what you watch long enough gets into you, whether you intend it to or not.

It was in the spring of the year I turned 19 that the conversations in our group began shifting.

There had always been talk.

The kind of talk that young men full of borrowed anger do when they are together.

Big talk, violent talk, talk that sounded serious, but that you half expected would remain talk.

But that spring something was different.

The conversations were quieter, more focused.

There was a man in our group, older than most of us, who had connections to a more organized network in the city.

He began visiting more frequently.

He spoke with the kind of calm precision that made everything he said sound like something that had already been decided.

He did not bluster.

He did not need to bluster.

He was the kind of man who speaks quietly when he is most dangerous.

He began talking about the church.

He spoke about it as a symbol, as something that needed to be addressed in a way that would send a message not just to the Christians in Kotadu, but to Christians throughout the region.

He spoke about it the way you speak about something that is already done, something you are simply waiting for the right moment to execute.

And the men around me nodded, some enthusiastically, some with a kind of nervous energy that they covered with agreement because agreement was the only safe response in that room.

and I nodded too because I was 19 years old and I had spent 2 years being told that this was holy work and I believed it.

I believed it with the particular intensity of a young man who has never examined his beliefs carefully because he has been told that examination is a form of disloyalty.

I believed it the way you believe things.

When the believing is part of who you are, when to question it would be to question yourself.

I believe now looking back with the long sight that comes after pain and change and years of sitting with what you have done that God was watching all of those meetings that he was watching me sit in those circles and nod my head.

I believe that he knew what I was about to do.

And I believe that he had already decided what he was going to do about it, not to punish me, to reach me.

I did not know then that there is a God who reaches toward the people no one else would reach for.

I did not know then that I was already in the middle of a story whose ending I could not imagine.

My mother Ammy gentle and watchful and continuously somewhere in prayer came to my room one evening in the weeks before that Sunday.

She did not say anything specific.

She sat beside me in the way she sometimes did, not intruding, not demanding, just present, and she looked at me for a long moment with those eyes that had always seen me more clearly than I was comfortable with.

And then she said in the quiet direct way she had that she had been praying for me, that she was always praying for me, that she did not know what it was she felt when she looked at me lately, only that it made her want to pray more.

I told her I was fine.

I believe I even smiled.

And she looked at me for one more moment and then she nodded slowly.

the nod of a woman who is not convinced but who has decided to trust God with what she cannot fix herself.

She went back to her prayers.

I went back to my plans and between those two things, between her prayers and my plans, God was already building something I could not see.

My father saw nothing.

My father read his Quran with the certainty of a man who has never questioned whether what he knows is true.

And he was satisfied with me.

I was still praying.

I was still present.

I was still in every external way the kind of son he had raised.

He had no reason to look closer.

And I gave him none.

The plan was set.

The church was chosen.

The date was agreed upon.

And I, Tariq Hussein, the second son of Gulam Hussein, the boy who had grown up hearing that the sky is above the earth and that Christians were beneath us in the eyes of God, was among those who would carry it out.

I did not lose sleep the night before.

I wish I could tell you I did.

I wish I could tell you that something in me resisted that some voice warned me that I lay awake wrestling with my conscience.

But I did not.

I slept to sleep of a young man who has convinced himself that his violence is a virtue.

I slept without complication, without hesitation, without so much as a tremor in the stillness of that night.

And I woke the next morning with the kind of focused empty calm that I now recognize as one of the most terrifying states a human being can inhabit.

The state of being wrong and not knowing it.

The state of being lost and believing you are exactly where you are supposed to be.

the state in which a person is capable of any damage because they have given the accounting of their actions over to something outside themselves and are no longer checking the numbers.

That was me on the morning of that Sunday in spring.

That was who walked toward the church that morning.

That was the man God decided to stop.

I want to be honest with you about something before I take you into that morning for a long time after everything that happened.

I struggled with how to tell this part of the story.

Not because I had forgotten it.

You do not forget something like struggled was different.

The reason I struggled was different.

The reason I struggled was because I knew that when I told people what I did, really told them, not in the vague and comfortable language of I made mistakes or I was involved in some bad things, but in the plain and ugly truth of it.

I would have
to sit with what their faces did when they heard it.

I would have to sit with their silence with the weight of what I had actually been with the full reality of what I was asking them to hold alongside me.

And then one day a pastor told me something that I have carried with me ever since.

He said that the testimony which costs you nothing is worth nothing.

that if your story does not make you uncomfortable to tell, you are probably not telling the real one.

And he was right.

So, I’m going to tell you the real one.

Even the parts that make me want to look away, especially those parts.

The Sunday we chose was a regular Sunday in every way except for what we were about to do to it.

The morning came the way spring mornings come in Punjab with a thin golden light that made everything look softer and more beautiful than it actually was as though the world were apologizing in advance for what was about to happen in it.

The air was still cool.

The bird were making their noise in the trees near the canal.

Somewhere nearby, a woman was calling to her children in the early morning voice that mothers use.

Hi and carrying and routine.

If you did not know what was about to happen, it would have looked like a morning worth being grateful for.

The kind of morning that arrives looking like a gift.

I washed my face.

I ate something though I cannot remember what.

I prayed farger the morning prayer and I felt while praying it the same dull certainty I always felt the sense that I was correctly oriented that my direction was right.

I finished the prayer and rolled up the mat and set it against the wall and went to meet the others.

There is something deeply disturbing to me now about the fact that I prayed that morning that I spoke to God and then walked out to do what I was about to do that the prayers and the plan coexisted so peacefully in me.

I have had to sit with that particular detail many times because it is the detail that most clearly shows me how complete the distortion was.

A man whose faith and his violence can live in the same morning without tension is a man who has lost the ability to see either thing clearly.

We gathered at a spot about half a kilometer from the church.

There were eight of us in total.

Some I had known for years.

Some were from outside Cotu brought in for exactly this kind of thing.

Men who moved between towns doing the work that local men sometimes hesitated to do.

Men whose faces I have never fully been able to remember which I think is my mind’s protection of itself.

I will only say that they looked ordinary.

That is the thing about people who do terrible things.

They almost always look ordinary.

They do not look like the villains in the stories we tell ourselves about how evil works.

They look like your neighbor.

They look like the man who sells vegetables at the market.

They look like a young man who should still be in school, which some of them were.

The plan was straightforward in the way that destructive plans often are.

We had done the reconnaissance in the days before, moving past the building casually at different times, noting the structure, the access points, the routines.

We knew roughly when the Sunday service began.

We knew that by a certain hour the congregation would be gathered inside.

We had what we needed, containers of fuel that had been quietly obtained and stored.

We had a plan for how to approach the building, for which sides to target, for how to move quickly and get away before anyone could respond effectively.

Simple, organized, wrong beyond any measure I had at that time to comprehend.

I was one of the ones assigned to the actual pouring.

I think about that now the specific detail of my assignment and I understand that it was not an accident of planning.

I was trusted.

I had proven myself.

I had been in the group long enough and had shown enough willingness that I was given a real role.

Not a standing at the back role, not a watching from a distance role.

I was given a can to carry.

I was given a position.

I was given a job.

And I accepted it with the particular pride of a young man who has been told through action rather than words that he is valued.

That is the thing about the way these groups work on young men.

They do not primarily coers.

They primarily honor.

They make you feel that you are important enough to be trusted with important things.

And once you have accepted that honor, the price of it becomes harder and harder to refuse.

We move toward the church in small clusters, not altogether, because a group of eight men moving through a village on a Sunday morning would attract attention.

I walked with two others.

We did not speak much.

There was a kind of tightness in the air between us.

Not quite fear, but something adjacent to it.

A heightening.

The kind of feeling you get when your body knows something significant is about to happen.

Even when your mind is trying to stay calm and controlled, the body always knows.

Even when the mind has gone somewhere it should not go.

The body carries a different kind of knowledge.

It was trying to tell me something that morning.

I did not listen.

I remember the sound of singing before I saw the building clearly.

I want you to hold that for a moment.

I want you to understand what I mean when I say I heard it.

It was not a distant sound, not muffled and indistinct.

It reached me clearly on the still morning air.

Multiple voices in a particular arrangement that is unmistakable.

The specific human configuration of worship.

Voices rising and falling together with the quality that group singing always has.

The individual voices disappearing into something larger than themselves, becoming one sound, one thing.

I have heard music all my life.

I have heard people sing at weddings and in the fields and to their children at night.

But worship singing has a particular quality that is different from all other singing.

There is a direction to it, a vertical quality as though the voices are not just moving outward into the air but upward into something.

I heard it and I felt nothing.

That is the truth and I will not soften it.

I heard the sound of people worshiping inside that building and I felt absolutely nothing except a kind of mechanical focus on what I was there to do.

I processed the singing as information.

Congregation inside service in progress.

Timing confirmed and I kept walking.

I’ve thought about that moment many times since about the fact that I could hear human beings singing which is one of the most profoundly human things there is.

One of the things that most clearly distinguishes us from everything else that lives on this earth and feel nothing but the cold efficiency of purpose.

It tells you everything about what that ideology had done to the inside of me.

It had not made me a monster.

It had made me a machine.

And machines feel nothing when they do damage.

We reached the building.

We moved to our positions.

There were wooden storage sections along the back and side of the church.

Older sections of the structure that were connected to the main building.

Storage areas and a small room where the pastor kept things.

dry old wood that had been standing in the Punjab heat for many years, absorbing summer after summer until it was lighter than it should have been, porous and ready.

We had been told these would catch quickly.

We had been told that once those sections were burning well, the fire would spread.

I poured the fuel.

I am going to let those words sit there for a moment because I think they deserve to.

Not because I want to be dramatic, but because I want you to understand that I’m not speaking in abstractions.

I’m not saying we set the church on fire as though it were a passive event that simply occurred, something that happened in the world the way weather happens.

I’m telling you that I was there.

I had the container in my hands and I poured the fuel onto the walls and ground of a building where people were worshiping, where voices were being lifted, where a congregation had gathered as they gathered every Sunday to do the most ordinary and most extraordinary thing that human beings do to come together and reach toward God.

I poured the fuel while they did that.

I want to own that completely.

Not for the performance of it, but because one of the things I know now is that the only way through the truth of what you have done is through it.

Not around it, not above it, through it.

The moment the fire was lit, things moved quickly.

Flames are not patient.

They do not wait for you to process what is happening before they commit to what they are doing.

Within a very short time, the wooden sections were burning properly and the smoke was beginning to rise and the heat was already something you could feel from a distance.

a wall of warmth pushing outward, making the air ripple and distort in that particular way that fireheated air does, as though reality itself were being made unstable.

I began to move back.

That was the plan.

Pour and move back and get to the meeting point and disperse clean and fast.

That was what we had rehearsed in our heads.

But I did not get far.

I stopped walking.

I do not fully know how to explain this.

It was not a decision.

It was not as though I thought to myself, I should stop and look.

It was more like something arrested me, like the ground under my feet shifted slightly, like a subtle seismic event that no instrument would have registered, but that I felt in my legs, like my body, which had been trying to tell me something all morning, finally found a way to make itself heard.

I have heard people describe moments where the body does something before the mind understands why and that is the closest I can come to describing it.

I stopped and I turned back toward the church and I looked.

The people inside knew by now that something was wrong.

You could hear it in the change in the sounds coming from inside.

But here is the thing and I need you to hold this carefully because this is where the story begins to become something I cannot explain with any ordinary logic.

They did not run out.

I expected chaos.

I expected screaming and people flooding out of the doors and the panic of human beings confronted with fire and danger.

I had seen violence before.

I knew how people responded to sudden threat.

The way the body takes over.

The way rational thought collapses into pure instinct.

The way crowds move when fear is running them.

I expected to see that.

Instead, what I heard rising above the sound of the fire and the smoke and the mourning was singing, still singing.

And beneath the singing, the deep sound of what I can only describe as collective prayer.

Not frantic prayer.

Not the kind you produce when you are trying to bargain with a situation because you have no other option, but the kind of sound that come from people who have gone somewhere beneath panic, somewhere deep and still and foundational and are praying from
that place.

The way you pray when you know who it is you are praying to and the knowing is itself a kind of shelter.

I stood there and I could not move.

One of the other men came back for me, pulled at my arm, said something urgent in my ear.

I do not fully remember what he said.

I remember the pulling.

I remember being dimly aware that I needed to leave but I could not take my eyes off the building.

I could not look away from what was happening because something the something become explicable before it.

The something become explicable before it allows the body to move.

The fire was burning.

I want to be very clear about this because I do not want to tell you a story that sounds like something from a film where the flames miraculously disappear or the building is found untouched.

The fire was real, the smoke was real, the sections we had targeted were burning and yet the people inside were not rushing out.

They were not screaming and the fire was not spreading in the way we had been told it would with the speed and totality of fire that has been given every advantage.

It was as though the fire had found a limit somewhere a line it was not crossing.

I cannot account for this in scientific terms.

I’m not going to try.

I am only going to tell you what I observed.

And what I observed was fire that burned but did not consume in the way and at the speed it was supposed to and people who prayed inside it instead of fleeing and singing that would not stop.

I stood there long enough that the man who had come back for me eventually gave up and ran.

And I was alone, standing at a distance from a burning church, listening to people pray inside it.

And something inside me that had been sealed shut for years, something I did not even know was there, something I had not had access to since I was a very young child in the courtyard with the tree cracked open.

And the crack let in something that had no name yet, only a sensation, only a temperature, something that was neither hot like the fire in front of me, nor cold like the certainty I had been living inside, something in between,
something that felt almost imperceptibly like the beginning of feeling.

I want to tell you about the minutes that followed because they are the center of everything.

The smoke was heavy and dark and going upward in that windless morning sky.

People from the surrounding area were beginning to notice.

I could hear voices from a distance.

People responding to the smoke the way a village responds when something is wrong.

Doors opening.

Feet on the roads.

the gradual gathering of people who have seen something and are moving toward it with the particular urgency of community confronting crisis.

There was movement beginning in the village and it was coming my direction.

And then the doors of the church opened not in the way I expected, not bursting open with people flooding out in terror.

They opened with a kind of deliberateness.

the deliberateness of a decision being made rather than a reflex being triggered.

And the congregation began to come out coughing from the smoke.

Some of them clearly in pain, some of them holding each other, the older ones supported by younger ones, the children held close against parents’ chests.

And they came out praying, audibly praying.

I could hear it.

And some of them were still impossibly still singing very softly, barely above a breath, but singing.

The song had changed.

It was lower now, slower, almost like a murmur, but it was there.

I do not have a word in any language for what I felt in that moment.

I have looked for the word since in Udu and in Punjabi and in English and I have not found it.

It was not guilt yet.

Guilt came later.

And when it came, it came with full force.

What I felt in that moment was something closer to vertigo.

The feeling you get when the floor that you thought was solid shifts beneath you.

When everything you understood about the way things work has suddenly been called into question without any adequate replacement being offered yet.

the feeling of the frame giving way before you have another frame to hold.

I had expected to see what fire does to people.

I had expected fear and chaos and devastation.

And in some dark honest part of me, I had expected a kind of satisfaction at the demonstration of power.

The cold satisfaction that I had felt before when things we planned went according to plan.

What I saw instead was something that had no place in my understanding of the world.

I saw people who should have been broken walking out whole, not unaffected.

Let me be careful here.

There were injuries.

There were people who had burns, who needed help, who were in real physical distress.

One man was being half carried by two others, his face contorted with pain.

one arm held awkwardly against his body.

I am not telling you nothing bad happened.

I am telling you that what I saw was not what should have happened given what we had done and how we had done it.

And more than the physical fact of it, more than the fire not doing what fire does, more than the building holding longer than it should have, more than any of that was what I saw on the faces of those people as they came out.

There was a moment, one specific moment, that I have turned over in my mind more times than I can count.

more times than I have turned over almost any other moment in my life.

A woman came out near the end of the group.

She was older with white hair that the suit had turned partially gray black and a dark shaw around her shoulders and she was supporting herself with one hand on the shoulder of a younger woman beside her.

Her face had suit on it.

Her eyes were streaming from the smoke, not crying exactly, but the involuntary watering that smoke forces from the eyes.

Her breath was coming with difficulty, audible from where I stood.

Each inhale a small effort, and as she came through the door into the morning air, she looked up.

Not at the crowd beginning to gather, not at the smoke, not at the building that was burning behind her.

She looked up directly up at the sky, at the thin spring sky, blue and clear, and entirely unconcerned with what was happening below it.

The expression on her face was not fear.

It was not even relief in the ordinary sense, the way you look when you have escaped something.

It was something I had never seen before on a human face.

Something that I could not name that morning because I had no category for it.

I can name it now.

It was gratitude.

Pure, uncontained, completely sincere gratitude.

The expression of someone who had just witnessed something that confirmed everything she had ever believed.

The expression of someone who had just met in the middle of fire and smoke.

The god she had been speaking to all her life.

I watched her face and something broke in my chest.

Something small and structural.

A hairline fracture in something I had not known was loadbearing.

I did not understand what was breaking.

I only felt it.

I ran.

Eventually, I ran because I heard people getting closer and I had the remaining animal sense to know that I needed to be gone.

I ran through the lanes of Kot Adu, the same lanes I had walked all my life, and they felt completely different under my feet.

They felt unfamiliar, like someone had changed something essential about them while I was standing in front of that church, like the ground itself had shifted slightly from its previous position and had not fully settled into the new one.

I ran until I reached a part of the village that was quiet, and I stopped and stood against a wall and tried to breathe.

My hands were shaking.

I looked at my hands.

The hands that had poured the fuel.

The hands that had carried the can.

The hands that had done the thing I had just done.

And they were shaking badly enough that I could not make them stop.

I pressed them against the wall behind me.

I pressed them against my thighs.

I locked the fingers together.

They kept shaking.

And for the first time since everything had begun that morning, I felt something move through my body that was not cold calculation or focused conviction or the borrowed bravery of belonging to something.

What moved through me was something alltogether different, something raw and animal and honest, something that all the ideology and the group meetings and the years of hardening myself had never fully succeeded in burying, only in
covering, only in managing, only in keeping at a certain distance from the surface.

It was the feeling of a man who has just done something he cannot take back and who for the very first time is not sure he should have done it.

That feeling had no theology in it.

It was not about Jesus.

It was not about God in any form I could have recognized then.

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