We stormed into that church during the wedding ceremony.

Seven of us ready to stop what we believed was the worst betrayal of Islam.

But what happened next shattered everything I thought I knew about God.

Have you ever been so certain you were right that you couldn’t see the hatred consuming your own heart? My name is Karim and I am 29 years old.

I grew up in Casablanca, Morocco, in a home where Islam was not just a religion, but the air we breathed every single moment of every single day.

My father Ibrahim was not like other fathers who prayed on Fridays and forgot about Allah the rest of the week.

He sat on the Islamic council in our neighborhood.

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He spent 4 hours every evening after work studying the hadith with other serious men who had long beards and serious faces.

My mother wore black from head to toe.

I never saw her hair or her arms or even her face when we walked outside together.

When I was a little boy, I sometimes forgot what my own mother looked like because the black cloth covered everything except her eyes.

From the time I could walk, my father taught me that Christians were the enemies of true faith.

He said they worshiped three gods instead of one God.

He said they changed the words that God gave to their prophets.

He said they believed lies about Jesus being the son of God when everyone knows that God has no sons and no partners.

My father told me that being nice to Christians in the market or at work was fine because we needed to live in peace.

But he said we could never accept their religion as true.

He said their churches were places of darkness and confusion.

He said their Bible was full of mistakes and corruption.

I believed every word he said because fathers do not lie to their sons about important things like God and heaven and hell.

I was the kind of son that made my father smile with pride.

Other boys in my street played soccer until the sun went down.

They snuck cigarettes behind the school.

They watched movies their parents said were forbidden.

I did none of these things.

I went to the mosque for extra Quran classes three times every week.

I memorized verses while other boys were wasting time.

By the time I turned 14 years old, I had memorized every single word of the Quran.

All 114 chapters, every verse in perfect classical Arabic that rolled off my tongue like honey.

The imam brought visitors from other mosques to hear me recite.

He used me as an example when he taught parents how to raise good Muslim children.

He said, “If every boy was like Kharim, then Morocco would be the most blessed nation on earth.

” When I became a teenager, I joined a group at the mosque for young men who wanted to protect Islam.

We were not violent with knives or guns.

We were activists who believed our words and actions could defend the faith.

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We stood outside shops that sold alcohol and we told customers they were sinning against Allah.

We passed out papers in the market explaining why women should cover their bodies.

We wrote down the names of businesses that stayed open during Friday prayers and we reported them to the religious authorities.

We believed we were soldiers of Allah fighting against western corruption that was trying to destroy our way of life.

I felt proud every time we made someone feel ashamed for breaking Islamic law.

I thought I wasing up rewards in paradise for defending God’s honor.

When I was 21 years old, I met Shik Abdullah.

He ran a secret group that the police did not allow, but we met anyway in different houses each week so we would not get caught.

Sheikh Abdullah was the most amazing speaker I ever heard.

He could quote any verse from the Quran from memory.

He could reference any hadith to prove whatever uh point he wanted to make.

He taught us that Islam was under attack from crusader nations who wanted to wipe out our faith.

He said America and Europe were sending movies and music and ideas about democracy to poison the minds of young Muslims.

He said every Christian church in a Muslim country was a symbol of our defeat and shame.

Shik Abdullah hated Moroccan Christians more than anything else in the world.

He called them traitors and apostates who deserve to die according to Islamic law.

He said these people who left Islam for Christianity were worse than people who never believed in the first place.

He said they were spitting on the graves of their Muslim ancestors.

He said they were helping the crusaders destroy Islam from the inside.

He taught us that while we could not legally kill apostates in Morocco, we had a duty to make their lives miserable.

We should make them afraid to practice Christianity openly.

We should disrupt their gatherings.

We should let them know that betraying Islam comes with serious consequences.

I absorbed every word Sheik Abdullah spoke like a sponge soaking up water.

I genuinely believe that defending Islamic purity was the most important thing a young Muslim man could do with his life.

That I saw myself as a spiritual warrior.

I imagined that Allah was watching me from heaven and smiling at my dedication and courage.

I convinced myself that my anger toward Christians was actually a form of love.

I thought I was protecting weak Muslims from being deceived.

I thought I was defending the honor of God against people who insulted him by calling Jesus his son.

By 2018, I had become Sheik Abdullah’s most trusted helper.

I organized protests outside places where we heard Christians were meeting.

I recruited new young men to join our group.

I taught classes about the dangers of Christian missionaries who tried to trick Muslims into converting.

I had a reputation in our community as someone who took Islam more seriously than almost anyone else my age.

People respected me.

Young men looked up to me.

that the fathers pointed to me as an example of what their sons should become.

I had convinced myself that I had life figured out.

I knew exactly who God was and what he wanted.

I knew exactly who the enemies of truth were and how to fight them.

I knew exactly what my purpose was and how to fulfill it.

I prayed five times every day without ever missing.

I fasted during Ramadan and extra days throughout the year.

I gave money to support Islamic causes.

I studied the Quran and hadith for hours each week.

I was doing everything right according to the religion I had known since birth.

I was absolutely certain that paradise was waiting for me because of my faithful service to Allah.

I had no doubts, no questions, no uncertainty whatsoever about my beliefs or my purpose or my future.

Ask yourself this question.

Have you ever been so convinced you were defending truth that you could not see the hatred growing in your own heart? In early June of 2018, Shik Abdullah called an emergency meeting at Hassan’s apartment.

His face was red with anger when we arrived.

His hands were shaking as he told us about something that made his blood boil.

A Moroccan woman named Amina, who had abandoned Islam and become a Christian, was planning to marry a French Christian man in a public church ceremony.

The wedding was scheduled for June 14th at 3:00 in the afternoon at St.

Antony’s Catholic Church in the Guis district of Marrakesh.

Shake Abdullah paced back and forth across the small living room as he explained why this wedding was not just a personal choice but an attack on all of Islam.

But he said Amina was not quietly practicing her new religion in private.

She was celebrating her apostasy in public for everyone to see.

She was showing other weak Muslims that leaving Islam was acceptable and even worth celebrating.

She was inviting more betrayal and more conversions by making her wedding a spectacle.

He said, “If we allowed this to happen without any response, then we were just as guilty as she was.

” The more Sheik Abdullah talked, the angrier I became.

I imagined this woman, Amina, wearing a white wedding dress and standing in a church full of crosses and statues.

I imagined her speaking Christian vows and taking communion and celebrating the religion that insulted Allah by claiming he had a son.

Every detail made me more furious.

This was not happening in France or America where Christians do whatever they want.

This was happening in Morocco, in a Muslim country, in my city.

The disrespect and arrogance of it made my hands clench into fists.

Shik Abdullah said we needed to make a statement that apostasy would not be celebrated without consequences.

He said we should enter the church during the ceremony and disrupt the wedding.

We would not hurt anyone physically because that would bring too much police attention.

But we would make sure everyone present understood that betraying Islam comes with shame and opposition.

We would ruin their celebration.

We would make Amina regret her choice to publicly insult her family’s faith.

Seven of us volunteered immediately.

Me and Hassan and Ysef and Bilal and Omar and Mustafa and Hamza.

We were all young men in our 20s and early 30s.

None of us were married.

All of us were committed to defending Islam no matter what it cost.

We spent the next week planning exactly what we would do and say.

We practiced our confrontation like actors rehearsing for a play.

We chose our clothing carefully.

We would wear traditional white robes and prayer caps so everyone would know immediately that we represented is Islam.

On the morning of June 14th, we met at Hassan’s apartment to pray together.

Shik Abdullah came to give us his blessing before we left.

He recited verses from the Quran about the punishment waiting for apostates in hell.

He reminded us that the prophet Muhammad showed no mercy to people who abandoned Islam.

He said, “We were following the prophet’s example by confronting this public betrayal.

” He placed his hands on each of our heads and prayed that Allah would give us courage and success.

We drove to the church in two cars and parked several blocks away.

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Anony’s was a beautiful old building made of stone with colored glass windows and a large cross on top.

Just seeing that cross in the middle of a Muslim city made me angry.

To me, it represented centuries of crusaders trying to destroy Islam.

It represented the ongoing war between truth and lies.

It represented everything wrong with allowing Christianity to exist openly in our country.

We sat in the cars watching people arrive for the wedding.

Most guests were clearly foreigners, French people and Spanish people and others from Europe dressed in fancy suits and dresses.

But we also saw Moroccan faces, people who looked like they could be from my own neighborhood walking into a church to celebrate apostasy.

Each Moroccan who entered felt like a knife in my back.

These were my people, my countrymen, children of Muslim families, and they were betraying everything their ancestors had believed and died for.

At exactly 3:15 in the afternoon, we got out of the cars and walked across the street.

My heart was pounding so hard.

I could hear it in my ears.

I was not afraid.

I was excited.

I was ready to defend Islam in the most public way I had ever done.

I was about to make a statement that would echo through the Christian community in Morocco.

I was doing something that mattered, something important, something that would make Allah proud of my courage and dedication.

Hassan pulled open the heavy wooden door and all seven of us walked into the church together.

The inside was dim with candles burning and colored light coming through the windows.

I could see Amina at the front in a white dress standing next to a man who must be her French groom.

A priest in fancy robes was speaking in French.

About 60 people sat in wooden benches watching the ceremony.

Everything was quiet and peaceful and holy looking.

We were about to destroy that piece.

We walked down the center aisle in a tight group.

Our footsteps echoed on the stone floor.

People turned to look at us.

I saw confusion on their faces.

Then alarm, then fear.

They saw seven Muslim men in traditional Islamic clothing marching toward the altar during a Christian wedding.

They knew something bad was about to happen.

They just did not know how bad.

Ask yourself this question.

Have you ever felt so certain you were doing God’s work that you ignored the voice inside telling you something was terribly wrong? Uh the priest stopped speaking mids sentence when we reached the front of the church.

Amina’s face turned white with fear.

Her groom stepped in front of her like he was trying to protect her with his body.

The guests sat frozen in their seats, not knowing if we had weapons or what we planned to do.

The silence lasted maybe 3 seconds, but it felt like an hour.

I stepped forward and raised my voice so everyone in the building would hear me clearly.

I spoke in Arabic first, then repeated everything in French.

I declared that this ceremony was an abomination uh before Allah.

I said this woman had committed apostasy, which is the worst sin in Islam.

I said everyone present was celebrating her betrayal of the one true God.

I held my Quran above my head like a sword.

Hassan and Yousef started shouting verses from the Quran about Christians being deceived and lost.

Bilal yelled that the church was built on land that should belong to Muslims.

Omar shouted directly at Amina, calling her a traitor and warning her about the hellfire waiting for apostates.

The noise echoed of the stone walls.

People started crying.

Some pulled out phones.

A few men stood up like they might try to fight us.

I felt powerful in that moment.

We were seven Muslim men standing in the heart of enemy territory, fearlessly proclaiming truth.

No one was stopping us.

No one was silencing us.

We were ruining this wedding exactly as we planned.

I felt like a warrior for Allah, striking a blow against the forces trying to destroy Islam.

Then something happened I did not expect.

Amina stepped away from her groom and walked straight toward me.

Her white dress made a soft sound as she moved.

Tears were running down her face, but she did not look afraid anymore.

She looked sad, but also strong.

She stopped less than three feet from where I stood, close enough that I could see the small cross hanging around her neck.

She spoke to me in Arabic so I would understand every word.

She said my name, Karim.

I was shocked she knew who I was.

She said she knew Shik Abdullah sent us.

She said she knew what we believed because she used to believe the same things.

She said she had been as devoted to Islam as any of us.

She prayed five times daily.

She fasted.

She wore hijab.

She memorized Quran.

She did everything a good Muslim woman should do.

I started to interrupt her, but she raised her hand gently and kept talking.

She said she did not leave Islam because Christians tricked her.

She left because she met Jesus Christ personally and he showed her a love she never experienced in all her years as a Muslim.

She said she was not celebrating rebellion.

She was celebrating freedom from fear and freedom from trying to earn God’s approval through perfect behavior.

Her words created confusion in my mind.

I expected a scared apostate who would cower or argue or make excuses.

Instead, I was facing a woman who talked about Jesus with the same passion I felt about defending Islam.

It did not make sense.

Apostates were supposed to be weak and deceived.

This woman seemed strong and certain and peaceful.

The priest stepped forward next.

He was an old man with kind eyes and a gentle smile that seemed completely wrong for the situation.

He spoke in Arabic which surprised me.

I thought he would be a foreign missionary who did not speak our language.

He said we are welcome in God’s house.

He said we were God’s children just like everyone else in the room.

He said we came in anger but he invited us to stay in peace.

I was ready for many responses.

Anger, police, fighting, but not this, not welcome, not invitation.

The priest’s calmness made me uncomfortable in a way I could not explain.

He said, “God does not need our defense because he is perfectly capable of protecting his own truth.

” He said, “God wants our hearts, not our hatred.

” Jeanierre the groom stepped forward and spoke in French accented Arabic.

That was hard to understand but clear enough.

He said he loves Amina because he sees Christ’s love in her.

He said her conversion cost her everything.

Her parents disowned her.

Her friends abandon her.

People like us threaten her constantly.

But she chose Jesus anyway because she found truth worth any cost.

I looked around at my group.

Bilal wanted to leave.

Yousef said we should stay to keep monitoring their blasphemy.

Hassan looked confused and conflicted.

Without deciding together, we moved to the backbench and sat down.

We stopped shouting.

We stopped disrupting.

We just sat there not knowing what to do next.

Ask yourself this question.

What do you do when the people you came to condemn respond with love you have never experienced from the God you claim to serve? The priest made an announcement in French, then Arabic.

He said, “We were welcome to stay and witness the wedding or we were welcome to leave.

Either way, they would continue celebrating God’s love.

” I expected my group to storm out immediately to leave and declare victory.

But something strange was happening.

The calm response, the welcome, the complete lack of fear or anger.

It was confusing us and making us uncertain.

The ceremony started again.

The priest talked about Christ’s love shown through Jesus dying on the cross.

He said Jesus died for humanity’s sins not because we deserved it but because God’s love is not based on what we do or how well we perform.

He said salvation is a free gift for anyone who accepts it no matter their past or failures or religious background.

I try to filter everything through my Islamic training.

I tried to identify the lies and blasphemy in every statement.

I tried to keep my anger and certainty.

But something about the words was getting past my defenses.

The priest was not attacking Islam or insulting Muhammad.

He was just describing a god whose love was unconditional and available to everyone.

When Amina and Jeierre exchanged their vows, I watched her face change with pure joy.

She looked at her husband with such real love and happiness that I could not see her as deceived or corrupted.

Whatever she found in Christianity had clearly given her peace that showed in everything about her.

The priest invited people to come forward for communion.

He explained it.

It was a sacred meal representing Jesus’s body and blood given for humanity’s sins.

Non-atholics could come forward for a blessing instead.

To my complete shock, his son stood up and walked to the front.

He got in line with people going to the altar.

I wanted to grab him and pull him back.

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