When did this start? Who influenced me? Had I been meeting with Christians in secret? Had I been to a church? Did I have a Bible? I told him the truth or most of it.

I told him about reading the Bible online, about the questions I had always had, about how I came to believe Jesus was real.

I didn’t tell him about Ruth or the cross.

Some things I kept to myself as veered between rage and something like desperate pleading.

One moment he would be shouting about how I had ruined him, ruined his reputation.

The next moment he would be begging me to recant, to say it was all a mistake to come back to Islam, he explained over and over and what happened to apostates.

In Islamic law, in traditional interpretation, the penalty for leaving Islam was death.

In Yemen, this wasn’t just theoretical.

There had been cases, not common but not unheard of, where people suspected of apostasy had been killed by family members, honor killings they were called.

Hassan told me that tomorrow, this was on the second day of my imprisonment.

My father and brothers were coming.

The family had to decide what to do with me.

He gave me one more chance.

Renounce this Jesus.

Recommmit to Islam.

say the shahada in front of the family.

They would forgive me.

Life could go back to normal.

If I refused, he couldn’t protect me from what would happen.

I had all night to think about it.

That night was the longest of my life.

I lay on the bed in the dark, unable to sleep, going over everything in my mind.

If I recounted, if I denied Jesus and went back to pretending to be Muslim, I would probably live.

My family would be angry.

Hassan would watch me even more closely than before.

My life would be even more restricted.

But I would survive if I didn’t recant.

I would likely die.

Maybe not immediately.

Maybe they would just disown me, divorce me, throw me out to starve.

But probably they would do worse.

Honor was everything.

An apostate in the family was a stain that could only be washed away with blood.

The choice should have been obvious.

Surely God would understand if I lied to save my life.

Surely Jesus wouldn’t want me to die like this.

But every time I tried to imagine myself denying him, saying he wasn’t real, saying I had been confused and mistaken, I couldn’t do it.

Not because I was brave.

I wasn’t brave.

I was terrified.

Uh but because I knew it would be a lie.

And after years of lying, of pretending, of hiding who I really was, I found I couldn’t do it anymore.

Jesus was real.

He had saved me.

He had called me by name.

He loved me.

How could I deny the only true thing in my life? I thought about Peter.

How he had denied Jesus three times before the rooster crowed.

How he had wept bitterly afterward.

How Jesus had forgiven him and restored him.

Maybe if I denied Jesus now, he would forgive me too.

But I also thought about what Jesus had said.

Whoever denies me before men, I will also deny before my father who is in heaven.

I didn’t know what the right answer was.

I didn’t know what God wanted me to do.

So I prayed.

I prayed through that whole long night.

And as the sun started to rise as I heard a sound stirring in the other room, I felt that peace again.

And the same peace I had felt when I first believed.

quiet, certain, unexplainable.

I knew what I had to do.

When Hassan came in that morning and asked if I had made my decision, I looked at him and said quietly, “I’m sorry for the pain this causes you.

” But I cannot deny what I know.

It’s true.

His face went hard.

He nodded once like he had been expecting this.

He said, “My brothers would arrive that afternoon.

Then he left me alone.

They didn’t come that afternoon.

Hassan had lied again or changed the plan.

I didn’t know which.

Instead, he came into the bedroom that evening around 7.

It was March 15th.

I remember the date because it’s burned into my memory.

He looked strange, calm, but with something cold and final in his eyes.

He told me he had decided what to do.

He couldn’t let me shame the family publicly.

Oh, and he couldn’t let everyone know his wife had become a Christian.

The dishonor would destroy his position at the mosque.

Destroy his family’s reputation.

But he also couldn’t keep me alive.

I had committed apostasy.

I had betrayed Islam.

I had betrayed him.

So he would end it quietly tonight.

Then he would tell people I had died of natural causes, perhaps a sudden illness.

There would be a quick funeral.

It would be sad, but these things happened.

No one would ever know the truth.

I listened to him explain this, and I felt strangely detached, like he was talking about someone else.

I asked if I could pray first.

He said yes, 5 minutes.

Then he left the room.

I heard him going downstairs.

I got on my knees and I prayed.

I prayed for my family that they would somehow come to know the truth about Jesus.

I prayed for Hassan that God would have mercy on his soul.

I prayed for myself that I would have courage that it wouldn’t hurt too much that Jesus would receive me when I died.

And then I thanked him.

Thank Jesus for finding me, for loving me, for giving me these two years of knowing him.

thanked him that I hadn’t had to deny him.

That I would see him soon face to face.

If this is my time, I prayed, then receive me.

But if not, if there is still something you want me to do, then please save me.

I don’t know how, but please.

I heard Hassan coming back upstairs and I smelled something sharp and chemical.

Kerosene.

I need to tell you what happened next very carefully because even now, more than a year later, I still don’t fully understand it.

I only know what I saw, what I experienced, what Hassan experienced, too.

Though he would probably deny it now.

Hassan came into the room carrying a large plastic jug.

I recognized it immediately.

It was the kind we used for kerosene, for lamps and heaters.

The smell was overwhelming, sharp and oily and dangerous.

He didn’t look at me.

His jaw was set.

In that way it got when he had made a decision and wouldn’t be swayed.

He said I should move to the far side of the room.

I stood up from where I had been kneeling and back toward the window.

My legs were shaking so badly I could barely stand.

My mind was racing, trying to understand what he was planning to do.

He began pouring the kerosene.

Not on me.

On the floor, around the door frame, along the threshold, creating a barrier, a line of fuel between me and the only exit.

The reality of what was happening started to sink in.

He was going to burn me alive.

ug trapped me in this room and set it on fire.

I couldn’t speak.

My voice had completely left me.

I just watched him pour the kerosene in a careful line, making sure to get it into every crack of the old wooden door frame.

When the jug was empty, he stepped back into the hallway.

He pulled a box of matches from his pocket.

That’s when he finally looked at me.

For just a moment, I saw something in his face.

Not quite regret, but maybe recognition of what he was about to do.

Recognition that this was his wife, the woman he had been married to for 7 years, and he was about to burn her to death.

But then the hardness came back.

He said something about this being my choice, that I had brought this on myself.

Then he struck a match.

The sound of it, that small scraping sound, was the loudest thing I had ever heard.

I was paralyzed.

I couldn’t move, couldn’t scream, couldn’t do anything but stand there and watch the tiny flame flare to life in his hand.

Hassan bent down and held the match to the kerosene soaked door frame.

Nothing happened.

The match burned steadily in his hand, but the kerosene didn’t catch.

He held it there for several seconds, touching it directly to the wet wood.

Nothing.

The match burned down to his fingers and he had to drop it.

He looked confused.

I was confused.

Kerosene should ignite easily.

That’s the whole point of it.

Hassan struck another match.

Same result.

The match burned, but the kerosene didn’t catch fire.

He struck a third match, a fourth.

I watched in frozen disbelief as he went through half the box of matches.

Each time holding the flame to the kerosene, each time watching it simply not work.

His confusion was turning to frustration.

He bent down closer, touching the match directly to a puddle of kerosene on the floor.

The match went out.

Not from wind.

There was no wind in that closed hallway.

It just extinguished like someone had blown it out.

Hassan’s hand was shaking now.

I could see it even from across the room.

He struck three matches at once, holding them together to make a bigger flame.

He touched them to the kerosene.

They went out instantly.

All three at the same time.

The smell of kerosene was overpowering.

I knew that fuel was there, pulled on the floor, soaked into the wood.

There was no reason it shouldn’t burn.

No logical reason.

Hassan was breathing hard now.

He looked scared.

He stood up, backed away from the door, and just stared at the line of kerosene.

Then he looked at me.

I don’t know what my face showed in that moment.

I was in shock.

I didn’t understand what was happening anymore than he did.

He asked me, his voice shaking, what kind of sorcery this was.

I couldn’t answer.

I had no answer.

We stood there for a long moment in silence, just looking at each other across that room, across that line of kerosene that refused to to burn.

Then Hassan made a sound almost like a whimper and ran.

I heard his footsteps pounding down the stairs.

I heard the front door slam open and then silence.

I stood there unable to move for what felt like hours, but was probably only minutes.

My mind couldn’t process what had just happened.

The kerosene was still there.

I could smell it, see it glistening on the floor, but it hadn’t burned in match after match after match, and it hadn’t burned.

Finally, my legs gave out, and I collapsed to the floor.

Not near the kerosene, I was still afraid of it.

But by the window, I sat with my back against the wall and started to shake uncontrollably.

He saved me.

That was the only thought my mind could form.

Jesus saved me.

There was no other explanation.

Nothing in the natural world could explain what I had just witnessed.

Kerosene burns.

That’s what it does.

That’s its entire purpose.

But it hadn’t.

I started to cry.

Not from fear anymore.

The fear was draining away, leaving me hollow and strange.

I cried from relief, from disbelief, from a kind of awe I had never experienced before.

God had intervened directly, physically, miraculously.

He had saved my life.

I don’t know how long I sat there.

Time felt meaningless.

And at some point, I heard Hassan’s mother calling from downstairs, asking what was going on.

Where was Hassan? What was that smell? I didn’t answer.

I couldn’t.

Eventually, I heard her go back into her apartment and close her door.

She was old and easily confused.

She would probably convince herself she had imagined the commotion.

I sat by that window as the night deepened outside.

The kerosene smell gradually faded a little, though it still made my eyes water.

The reality of my situation slowly came back into focus.

Hassan would return, maybe not tonight, but soon.

And he would bring others with him.

My father, my brothers, maybe other men from the mosque.

They would find another way to deal with me.

Fire hadn’t worked, but there were other methods.

I was still trapped, still in danger.

The miracle had bought me time.

But it hadn’t solved the fundamental problem.

I was an apostate in a country where that could mean death.

I needed to run.

The decision to escape was both instant and agonizing.

I had nowhere to go, no money of my own, no friends who would help me if they knew what I had done.

My family would hunt me down if they knew I was trying to escape.

But staying meant death.

Maybe not tonight.

Maybe not tomorrow, but soon.

I waited until I was sure Hassan’s mother was asleep.

Then I unlocked the bedroom door from the inside.

Hassan had left the key in the lock when he ran and crept downstairs.

The house was dark and quiet.

I moved as silently as I could, feeling my way along familiar walls.

I knew Hassan kept money hidden in his study.

Not a lot, but some.

He didn’t trust banks entirely, so he kept cash on hand.

I had seen him count at once.

It maybe a few thousand reels.

I found the study, found the small safe where he kept documents and valuables.

I knew the combination.

I had seen him open it before.

My hands were shaking so badly it took three tries, but finally it clicked open.

Inside were some papers, some gold jewelry that had belonged to his first wife and a small stack of bills.

I took the money.

I left everything else.

I wasn’t a thief, just desperate.

I went back upstairs and grabbed a few things.

a change of clothes, my identification papers, a headscarf, and from the bathroom cabinet hidden in the tampon box, Ruth’s cross.

I put it on for the first time.

The thin chain around my neck, the small cross resting against my chest, hidden under my clothes.

It felt right, like armor.

Then I crept back downstairs and out the front door.

It was after 3:00 in the morning.

The streets of Sana were mostly empty.

There were some men still awake, sitting outside, drinking tea or chewing cot, but they paid no attention to one more covered woman hurrying through the darkness.

I walked for about 20 minutes, my heart pounding, expecting at any moment to hear her son’s voice behind me or to be stopped by someone asking where I was going alone at this hour.

But no one stopped me.

I reached the house of my old friend Safia.

We had known each other since childhood.

Though we had grown apart after my marriage, Safia came from a more modern family.

Her father was a doctor.

Her mother had studied in Egypt.

They were still Muslim, but less strict, more open-minded.

I didn’t know if Safia would help me.

I didn’t know if she would even open the door, but I had nowhere else to go.

I knocked very quietly, her afraid of waking the whole household.

After a long moment, I heard footsteps.

The door opened a crack.

Safia looked out, confused and alarmed.

When she recognized me, her eyes went wide.

She pulled me inside quickly and closed the door.

What happened? What’s wrong? Why are you here? I started to cry.

I couldn’t help it.

The fear and adrenaline and relief all came flooding out through my tears.

I told her not everything.

I didn’t tell her I had become a Christian.

I just said Hassan had discovered I had doubts about Islam, that he had tried to hurt me, that I needed to leave.

Please, I begged her.

Please help me.

Safia was silent for a long moment.

studying my face, I could see her trying to decide what to do.

Then she made up her mind.

She took me upstairs to her room.

She gave me water, made me sit down, and I waited until I stopped shaking enough to talk.

Then she said her brother Rashid knew someone who helped women in difficult situations.

Women escaping abusive marriages, women in danger.

It was dangerous and expensive, but it was possible to get out of Yemen to reach Djibouti or sometimes Oman to find refuge.

Would I want that to leave Yemen? To leave my family forever? I didn’t even hesitate.

Yes.

Safia nodded.

She said she would talk to Rashid in the morning.

I should sleep, try to rest.

I was safe here for now, but I couldn’t sleep.

I lay on a mat on her floor while she went back to bed and I stared at the ceiling and thought about what I had just agreed to.

I was going to leave Yemen, leave my family, leave everything I had ever known.

I was going to become a refugee.

The word felt huge and terrifying and somehow also liberating.

I’ve a refugee, a person fleeing persecution.

That’s what I was now.

I touched the cross under my shirt and whispered a prayer of thanks.

Jesus had saved me from the fire.

Now I was trusting him to save me from everything else too.

The next 48 hours are a blur in my memory.

Rashid came in the morning and talked to me.

He was cautious, asking questions to make sure I was serious, that I understood what I was asking for.

He said the journey would be dangerous.

There were checkpoints, smugglers who couldn’t always be trusted, risks of being caught and sent back.

But he had contacts, people who had done this before.

It would cost money.

Most of what I had stolen from Hassan, plus what Safia’s family could contribute as a loan.

I agreed to everything.

We couldn’t wait.

Hassan would have discovered I was gone by now.

He would be looking for me.

My family would be looking for me.

We had to move fast.

That afternoon, Rashi took me to meet a man he knew, someone who arranged transport for people who needed to disappear.

I won’t give details about who he was or how it worked.

There are others still using that route and I won’t endanger them.

All I’ll say is that it involved several different vehicles, several different drivers who didn’t ask questions.

It involved traveling at night, hiding during the day.

It involved checkpoints where I had to pretend to be someone else, show documents that that had been forged.

It involved terror like I had never known.

the constant certainty that at any moment we would be stopped.

I would be discovered, I would be dragged back.

But we weren’t stopped.

2 days after fleeing Hassan’s house, I crossed the border into Djibouti, I almost couldn’t believe it when it happened.

We drove through a checkpoint and suddenly the signs were in French instead of Arabic.

The guards were wearing different uniforms.

The flag was different.

I was out of Yemen for the first time in my life.

I was outside my country.

I wanted to cry with relief, but I was too exhausted, too numb.

The driver took me to a refugee camp on the outskirts of Djibouti City.

It was huge, sprawling, full of people from all over the Horn of Africa, Somalia, Itria, Ethiopia, Yemen.

People fleeing war, famine, persecution, people like me.

I was registered by the UN refugee agency.

Given a tent space, given basic supplies, told to wait, processing could take weeks or months.

I was safe for now.

That first night in the camp, and I lay on a thin mat in a tent I shared with three other women from Yemen, and finally let myself feel everything I had been holding back.

I had escaped.

I had survived.

Jesus had saved me from fire.

and he had saved me again through Safia, through Rashid, through strangers who had helped me reach freedom.

I took out the cross from under my clothes and held it in my hand and cried until I had no tears left.

I had lost everything and I had gained everything.

The refugee camp was called Marcazi.

It sat in a dusty plane outside Djibouti City, a sea of white tents and improvised shelters stretching as far as I could see.

The air was hot and dry, full of blowing sand and the smell of too many people living too close together.

When I first arrived, I thought it looked like the end of the world, but it was the beginning of mine.

Those first days were disorienting.

Everything was strange.

The language, the people, the way the camp operated.

Most people spoke Somali or French, neither of which I knew well.

My Arabic helped with some of the other Yemen refugees.

But many of them were suspicious of a woman traveling alone.

Why was I here? Where was my family? Why wasn’t I with my husband? I learned quickly to keep my story vague.

I said only that I had fled an abusive marriage, that my family wouldn’t protect me.

This was true enough, and it was a story people understood.

The camp was full of women fleeing violence.

I didn’t tell anyone I was a Christian.

Not at first.

It was still too dangerous.

There were conservative Muslims in the camp, too.

And I didn’t know who could be trusted.

I was assigned to a tent with three other women.

One was from Somalia, a mother whose children had died in the famine.

One was from Iritria who had fled mandatory military conscription.

One was from Yemen like me, an older woman whose house had been destroyed in the civil war.

We didn’t speak much at first.

Everyone in the camp carried trauma and we all needed space to breathe.

But slowly over days and weeks we began to talk, to share stories, to become something like friends.

I learned how the camp worked, where to get food rations, where to find clean water, how to navigate the bureaucracy of the refugee system.

I registered with the UN.

I applied for asylum.

I was told it could take months, maybe years before I was resettled somewhere safe.

Years.

I tried not to think about that.

I tried to focus on one day at a time.

And then about two weeks after I arrived, um, something happened that changed everything.

I was in line for food distribution when I heard someone singing.

The voice was faint coming from somewhere behind the medical tent.

I couldn’t make out the words, but the melody was beautiful, haunting.

I found myself drawn toward it, almost without deciding to move.

Behind the medical tent was a small cleared area where someone had set up a few plastic chairs in a circle.

About a dozen people were sitting there, mostly Ethiopians and Eritrians, and one person was standing, leading them in song.

The language was Amharic.

I learned later, but I didn’t need to understand the words to understand what was happening.

It was a church service.

My heart started pounding.

I stood at a distance, half hidden behind a tent, just watching.

They sang several songs.

And then someone stood and read from a book.

I was close enough to see it was a Bible.

Then someone else prayed, speaking in that same musical Amharic, hands raised.

I felt tears starting to form.

I had never seen Christians worship openly before.

In Yemen, such a gathering would be impossible, dangerous.

But here in this refugee camp, in this place of suffering and loss, these people were praising Jesus.

As the service was ending, one of the women looked up and saw me standing there.

She smiled and waved, gesturing for me to come closer.

I hesitated.

Then I walked over.

She spoke to me in broken Arabic, asking if I was new to the camp.

I nodded.

She asked if I was a believer.

I didn’t know how to answer.

If I said yes, word might spread.

Someone from Yemen might find out.

Might get back to Hassan somehow.

might make it harder for me to get asylum.

But looking at her kind face at the joy in her eyes, despite everything she had probably suffered, I couldn’t lie.

I said, “Yes.

Yes, I believe in Jesus.

” Her face lit up.

She pulled me into an embrace, speaking rapidly in Amharic.

I didn’t understand the words, but I understood the meaning.

Welcome.

You’re home.

Your family.

That’s how I found my church.

It wasn’t a building.

It wasn’t an official organization.

It was just a group of about 20 believers from different countries who met three times a week behind the medical tent to worship together.

Most of them were Ethiopian Orthodox or Eratrian, Catholic.

A few were Protestant.

Their traditions were different.

Their languages were different, but their faith was the same, and they welcomed me like I had always belonged.

I started attending every service.

The songs were in languages I didn’t know, but I hummed along anyway.

The prayers were sometimes in languages I couldn’t understand, but I said, “Amen.

” And when they read from the Bible, someone would translate for me into Arabic, and I would soak up the words like someone dying of thirst.

For the first time in my life, I was worshiping Jesus openly, not hiding, not pretending, not afraid.

It was freedom like I had never imagined.

One of the women in the group, an Ethiopian named Bethl, took me under her wing.

She had been a Christian all her life, raised in the church, and she knew the Bible deeply.

She started teaching me, helping me understand things I had only read about on my own.

And she explained the trinity in a way that finally made sense to me, not as a mathematical formula, but as a relationship of love.

She taught me about the Holy Spirit, this concept I had barely understood, and how the spirit lived in believers, guided them, comforted them.

She taught me about the church, the body of Christ, and how we weren’t meant to follow Jesus alone, but in community.

I had been so isolated for so long.

This community, this family of believers, was like water in a desert.

But there was something I needed to do, something that felt important, necessary.

I needed to be baptized.

Bethl explained that baptism was a public declaration of faith.

It was symbolic, representing death to the old life and resurrection to the new.

It was how Christians had marked their commitment to Jesus for 2,000 years.

I wanted it desperately.

We made arrangements with the pastor of a local Djiboutian church, a small congregation that sometimes helped the refugees.

He agreed to baptize me and several others who had come to faith in the camp.

The baptism was scheduled for May 14th, 2023.

Almost exactly 2 months after I I had fled Yemen, almost exactly 2 months after the night Hassan tried to burn me alive.

We went to the church early in the morning.

It was a simple concrete building with a corrugated metal roof, but to me it looked like a palace.

Inside was a small baptismal pool filled with water.

There were about 30 people there, the camp believers, some members of the local church.

The pastor Bethl stood beside me holding my hand.

I mean, the pastor asked if I confessed Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, if I believed he died for my sins and rose from the dead, if I was willing to follow him for the rest of my life, no matter the cost.

I said yes to all of it.

Then he led me down into the water.

It was cool and clean.

I stood there and he placed one hand on my back and one hand on my shoulder.

He said the words in French and Bethl translated for me, I baptize you in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

Then he lowered me back into the water.

For a moment I was completely submerged.

Everything was quiet and blue and weightless.

And then I was lifted up again, breaking through the surface, gasping and laughing and crying all at once.

The people around the pool were singing, clapping, praising God.

I stood there in the water, undrenched and shaking, feeling more alive than I had ever felt.

This was it.

This was who I really was.

Not Hassan’s wife, not a secret believer hiding in fear.

I was a daughter of God, a follower of Jesus, a Christian, and no one could take that away from me ever again.

The asylum process was slow and frustrating.

I had interviews with UN officials, with representatives from various countries, refugee programs.

I had to tell my story over and over why I left Yemen.

why I couldn’t go back, what would happen to me if I returned.

I was careful about what I said.

I explained about the abuse of marriage, about the danger I was in.

I didn’t emphasize the religious conversion.

I had been warned that could complicate things that some countries were reluctant to take in religious converts because it might cause diplomatic problems.

See, but I didn’t hide it either.

When asked directly about my religion, I said I was a Christian.

It was on my registration forms.

It was part of who I was.

In July, I got news.

A church in Canada had sponsored several refugees from our camp.

I was one of them.

I would be resettled in a city I had never heard of, in a country I knew almost nothing about.

I would have to learn a new language, adapt to a completely foreign culture, start my life over from zero.

I was terrified and grateful in equal measure.

The travel arrangements took another month.

There were medical exams, security checks, orientation sessions, and then in early August 2023, I boarded a plane for the first time in my life.

I left Djibouti, left Africa, left everything familiar.

20 hours later, I landed in Toronto, Canada.

The adjustment was harder than I expected.

When the church that sponsored me was wonderful.

They found me a small apartment, helped me enroll in English classes, connected me with other refugees, but everything was overwhelming.

The language was impossibly difficult.

The culture was so different.

The weather, I had never experienced cold like that.

When winter came, I thought I might die from it.

I was lonely in a new way.

In the camp, I had been surrounded by people who understood displacement, loss, trauma.

Here, people were kind, but they couldn’t really understand.

They had never been refugees.

They had never fled for their lives.

I missed my family with a physical ache.

I knew I could never contact them.

If they knew where I was, they might try to force me to return or worse.

But I missed my mother, my sisters, even my father.

Despite everything, I wondered if they thought about me, you know, if they mourned me, if they hated me.

I had left a note before I fled.

just a few words saying I was sorry, that I had to leave, that they shouldn’t look for me.

I hoped they had found it.

I hoped it gave them some closure, but I would never know.

About 6 months after arriving in Canada in February 2024, I got an email.

It was from my younger sister, Fatima.

Somehow, she had found a way to contact me through a mutual acquaintance.

The email was short.

She said our father had disowned me.

Her son had divorced me.

The family had held a funeral for me, told everyone I had died.

They had mourned and moved on.

She said she wasn’t supposed to contact me.

But she wanted me to know that she didn’t hate me.

She didn’t understand why I had done what I did, but she hoped I was safe.

Then she said she could never write to me again.

And I read that email over and over until I had memorized every word.

Then I cried for hours.

I was dead to them.

Truly officially dead.

It hurt more than I expected.

Even though I had known it would come to this, reading it in black and white made it real.

I was alone in the world.

No family, no history, no past.

Just me and Jesus.

And somehow that had to be enough.

Slowly, painfully, I built a new life.

I made progress in my English classes.

I got a part-time job cleaning offices in the evenings.

It wasn’t much, but it was mine.

Money I earned.

Work I chose to do.

I found a church, a small congregation with a mix of people from different backgrounds.

Some were Canadian-born, some were immigrants, some were refugees like me.

I started attending a women’s Bible study.

The women were kind, patient with my broken English, a eager to help me grow in my faith.

I learned about grace in deeper ways, about how God’s love wasn’t based on my performance, my worthiness, my ability to get everything right.

I learned that I could bring my doubts, my struggles, my grief to God, and he wouldn’t reject me.

I learned that Christianity wasn’t about having all the answers.

It was about relationship, about trust, about daily choosing to follow Jesus.

Even when the path was unclear, I still struggled.

I had nightmares about Hassan, about fire, about being trapped.

I had days where the loneliness was so heavy I could barely get out of bed.

I had moments of doubt.

What if I had made a terrible mistake? What if Islam was right after all? What if I had thrown away my family for nothing but always? When those doubts came, I would remember.

I would remember the peace I felt when I first believed.

I would remember the night the flames wouldn’t burn.

I would remember coming up out of the baptismal water.

I would remember that Jesus was real, that he had saved me, that he held me even now, and I would keep going.

In the spring of 2024, about a year after my escape, I was contacted by a ministry that worked with former Muslims who had converted to Christianity.

They asked if I would be willing to share my story, not publicly, not using my real name or showing my face, but recorded, translated, shared online to encourage others who were questioning, who were seeking, who were afraid.

I prayed about it for weeks.

It felt risky.

Even in Canada, there were extremists.

If my story was shared widely, someone might recognize details.

might track me down as but I also thought about women like me.

Women in Yemen, in Saudi Arabia, in Iran, in Pakistan, women who were reading the Bible in secret, praying to Jesus in hidden moments, wondering if they were crazy for believing in someone they had been taught was merely a prophet.

What if my story could give them courage? What if it could show them they weren’t alone? I said yes.

We recorded my testimony in several sessions.

I told everything.

My childhood, my marriage, my secret conversion, the night of fire, my escape.

It was hard reliving those moments, putting them into words, knowing strangers would hear my most painful memories.

But it was also healing, like lancing a wound and letting the poison out.

The ministry edited the recordings, translated them into several languages, and began sharing them online.

And they used a different name for me, not a mirror.

They blurred my face in the thumbnail.

They gave no identifying details about where I was now, but my story was out there.

And then the messages started coming.

women and some men from Muslim backgrounds reaching out through the ministry saying they had heard my story, saying they had the same questions, the same hunger, the same fear, asking how to find Jesus, asking how to survive as a secret believer, asking for prayer.

I responded to everyone I could.

I shared scripture.

I shared encouragement.

I prayed.

And I realized something.

This was why I was still alive.

This was the purpose in my pain.

God had saved me, not just for my own sake, but so I could help others find him, too.

Today, as I sit here in my small apartment in Canada, I am 27 years old.

It has been almost 2 years since the night Hassan tried to kill me.

My life is not what I imagined it would be.

I am not married.

I have no children.

I live alone in a foreign country where I still struggle with the language and the culture.

I work in an office building after hours, emptying trash cans and mopping floors.

I take English classes during the day.

I attend church on Sundays and Bible study on Wednesdays.

I live simply, quietly, carefully.

But I am free.

Free to pray to Jesus whenever I want.

Free to read the Bible openly.

Free to worship without fear.

Free to be who I truly am.

I still miss my family.

I probably always will.

There are days when the grief hits me like a wave and I have to sit down and cry until it passes.

I still have hard days.

Days when I feel the weight of loneliness, the ache of displacement.

I sent the fear that I will never truly belong anywhere.

I still sometimes wake up in the middle of the night smelling kerosene, remembering that look in Hassan’s eyes when he realized the fire wouldn’t catch.

But I also have joy, real deep joy that I never had before.

I have peace that doesn’t depend on my circumstances.

I have hope that’s rooted in something eternal, something that can’t be taken away.

I have Jesus, and Jesus has me.

Let me tell you what I’ve learned.

In these two years since my escape, I’ve learned that God doesn’t always rescue us the way we expect.

Sometimes he stops the fire from burning.

Sometimes he doesn’t stop the fire, but he walks through it with us.

Both are miracles.

I’ve learned that following Jesus costs something.

It cost me my family, my country, my culture, everything familiar and comfortable.

But what I gained was worth infinitely more.

I’ve learned that God’s love is not a distant, abstract concept.

It’s personal, intimate, real.

He knows my name.

He sees my tears.

He counts them precious.

I’ve learned that the Christian life is not easy.

It’s not about prosperity or comfort or getting all your prayers answered the way you want.

It’s about surrender, about trust, about believing that God is good even when life is hard.

I have learned that I am weak, so weak.

I have doubted.

I have struggled.

I have had moments where I wanted to give up.

But I’ve also learned that God’s strength is made perfect in weakness.

That when I am at my lowest, he is closest.

I’ve learned that the church is not a building.

It’s people, imperfect, broken people who are learning to love God and love each other.

And that community is essential.

We weren’t meant to follow Jesus alone.

I’ve learned that my story matters.

that God can use even the painful, messy parts for his glory.

That my suffering was not wasted.

I’ve learned that there are so many others like me, secret believers in dangerous places, people hungry for truth, desperate for hope, and that we have a responsibility to reach them, to help them, to show them they’re not alone.

Most importantly, I’ve learned that Jesus is real.

Not just real in some abstract theological sense, but actually tangibly, miraculously real.

I know because I’ve experienced him.

I’ve heard his voice.

I’ve felt his peace.

I’ve seen his hand in my life.

On March 15th, 2023, I should have died.

by every law of physics and chemistry that kerosene should have ignited.

Hassan had fuel, he had flame, he had intent, but the fire wouldn’t burn.

Uh, I cannot explain it.

I’ve tried.

I’ve thought about it a thousand times looking for some natural explanation.

Maybe the kerosene was old and had evaporated, but I could smell it, see it pulled on the floor.

Maybe the matches were faulty, but they burned fine in his hand.

Maybe there was some chemical reason.

I don’t understand.

Maybe.

Or maybe God intervened.

Maybe Jesus, the same one who walked on water and calmed storms and raised the dead, simply said, “Not yet.

” to death that night.

I believe that’s what happened.

I have to believe it because I experienced it.

And if that’s true, if God is real and powerful and personal enough to stop fire for me, then everything changes.

If God can do that, then he can do anything.

He can reach anyone.

He can save anyone.

Even someone like me, a Yemen woman from a strict Muslim family, married to an imam with no access to Christians or churches or support.

If he can reach me, he can reach anyone.

So this is my message to you.

Whoever you are watching or reading this, if you’re a Christian, be encouraged.

The God we serve is real.

He is active.

He is working in places you cannot see.

in ways you cannot imagine.

There are believers in the most unlikely places following Jesus at enormous cost because his love has captured them.

Pray for them.

Support ministries that help them.

Don’t forget about the secret church, the underground believers, the ones who worship in whispers.

If you’re someone who is questioning, who is curious about Jesus but afraid of what it might cost, I understand.

I’ve been where you are.

All I can tell you is he’s worth it.

Whatever you have to give up, whatever you have to walk away from, whatever price you have to pay, Jesus is worth it.

He won’t promise you an easy life.

He didn’t promise me one, but he promises his presence.

He promises his love.

He promises that nothing, not death, not life, not angels, not demons, not the present, not the future, nothing in all creation can separate you from his love.

And that is enough.

It has to be enough because it’s all we really need.

If you’re a Muslim who has been seeking truth, who has questions, who feels drawn to Jesus, but doesn’t know what to do, please don’t ignore that pull.

That’s God calling you.

He sees you.

He knows you.

He loves you.

I’m not saying it will be easy.

It wasn’t easy for me.

It may cost you everything, but Jesus is real.

He truly is who he claimed to be, the way, the truth, and the life, the son of God, the savior of the world.

And if you ask him with a sincere heart to reveal himself to you, he will.

Maybe not the way we you expect, maybe not immediately, but he will because he is faithful.

He is good.

And he doesn’t turn away anyone who comes to him.

My name is Amamira, though that’s not the name I was born with.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ.

I am a refugee, an exile, a stranger in a foreign land.

But I am also a daughter of the king, a citizen of heaven, an heir to eternal life.

I was lost and I was found.

I was dead and I was made alive.

I was trapped in darkness and I was brought into light.

And I will spend the rest of my life, however long or short it may be, telling people about the one who saved me.

Not just from the fire, though he did that.

Not just from oppression and abuse, though he did that too, but from sin, from death, from separation from God.

Oh, Jesus saved me completely, fully, finally, and he can save you, too.

That’s my story.

That’s my testimony.

And by God’s grace, it will be my message until the day I see him face to face.

If you’ve heard my story and have questions about Jesus, about Christianity, about how to explore faith safely, please reach out to the ministry that shared this testimony.

They can connect you with resources, with other believers, with help.

You don’t have to walk this path alone.

And if you’re a believer who wants to help people like me, people fleeing persecution, people who have given up everything to follow Jesus, there are ways you can help.

Support refugee ministries.

Support organizations that help secret believers.

Pray.

Give.

Use your freedom to help those who don’t have it.

We need you.

The secret church needs you.

Don’t forget about us.

Finally, I want to pray for anyone listening to this.

Father God, I thank you for each person hearing these words.

You know their name.

You know their situation.

You know their heart.

For those who are seeking you.

Draw them close.

Reveal yourself to them in undeniable ways.

Give them courage to follow where you lead.

Even if the path is difficult for those who are already following you in secret, in danger, protect them.

Strengthen them.

Let them know they are not alone.

Send help.

Provide community.

Guard their hearts and minds.

For those who are comfortable and safe, give them eyes to see and hearts to care for their brothers and sisters who suffer for your name.

Make them generous.

Make them bold.

Use them for your glory.

And for all of us, help us to live in the reality that you are real, that you are present, that you are enough.

In Jesus’ name, the name above all names, the name at which every knee will bow.

Amen.

 

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