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My name is Rashid and I need to tell you about the night I tried to kill innocent people.

I know that sounds shocking.

I know some of you will want to stop listening right now, but please stay with me because what happened that night, what happened after that night changed everything.

And if God could change someone like me, then nobody is beyond his reach.

Nobody.

When I close my eyes, I can still see that church.

I can still feel the weight of what I carried in my hands.

I can still taste the hatred in my mouth like bitter medicine.

But I’m getting ahead of myself.

To understand that night, you need to understand who I was.

You need to understand how a human heart can become so twisted, so dark that destroying a building full of praying people seems not just reasonable, but righteous.

I was born in 1980 in a small village in Syria.

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>> I was born in 1980 in a small village in Syria.

It was the kind of place where everyone knew everyone, where the call to prayer echoed five times a day across dusty streets, where the summer heat made the air shimmer like water.

My father owned a small textile shop.

We weren’t rich, but we had enough.

My mother, I remember her smile.

I remember how she would hum while she cooked.

How her hands were always gentle when she braided my sister’s hair.

How she smelled like cardamom and rose water.

She died when I was 9 years old.

Cancer, they said, but we didn’t have money for good treatment.

I watched her waste away over 6 months, her body becoming smaller and smaller until she looked like a shadow of herself.

The night she died, I heard my father crying in the next room.

I had never heard him cry before.

I never heard him cry again after that night either.

It was like something in him died with her and what remained was hard and cold.

After my mother’s death, my father changed.

He had always been religious, but now religion became everything.

He prayed longer.

He read the texts constantly.

And he became angry.

so angry at the world, at God, at Christians, at the West, at anyone who didn’t believe exactly as he did.

I was 9 years old.

And suddenly, my father looked at me like I was a soldier.

He needed to train for war.

He started teaching me to read the religious texts when I was 10.

Not with love or patience, but with urgency, with hardness.

He would make me memorize passages for hours.

If I made a mistake, he would hit my hands with a wooden stick.

Not hard enough to injure, but hard enough to hurt.

Hard enough to make me afraid.

Ah, he told me the world was divided into two groups, us and them.

The believers and the unbelievers, the righteous and the condemned.

I learned quickly.

I was a good student because I was afraid and because part of me wanted my father to love me again the way he had before my mother died.

I thought if I could be perfect, if I could be righteous enough, maybe I would see that softness in his eyes again.

But the more I learned, the harder his eyes became.

There were Christians in our village.

Not many, maybe 15 or 20 families.

They had a small church on the edge of town.

Before my mother died, we used to buy bread from a Christian family who had a bakery.

The old woman there would sometimes give me an extra piece, still warm, and smile at me.

After my mother died, my father stopped going to that bakery.

He said we shouldn’t give our money to unbelievers.

He said they were going to hell anyway, so why should we help them prosper in this life? I was confused at first.

The Christian woman had been kind to me.

She had smiled.

How could kind people go to hell? But my father explained it to me over and over.

He showed me texts.

He explained theology.

He made it all make sense.

Or at least he made it make sense to a grieving child who missed his mother and wanted desperately to believe there was order in the universe, that there was a clear right and wrong, a clear us and them.

By the time I was 13, I believed everything my father taught me.

I believed Christians were misguided at best, dangerous at worst.

I believe they had corrupted the true message.

I believe they worshiped three gods instead of one, that they had changed the scriptures, that they were allies of the West that bombed Muslim countries.

My father had a way of mixing theology with politics, personal pain with religious duty until it all became one tangled mess of anger and certainty.

When I was 15, my father introduced me to Shik Ahmmed.

Shik Ahmmed ran a study group for young men at a small mosque two villages away.

My father drove me there every Thursday evening.

There were maybe 10 of us, all teenagers, all hungry for a purpose and meaning.

Shik Ahmad was younger than my father, maybe in his early 30s, with a thick black beard and intense eyes that seemed to look right through you.

He taught us that we were living in a war.

Not a war with guns and bombs, although that would come too, but a war of ideas, a war for souls, a war between truth and falsehood.

He taught us that the Christians wanted to destroy Islam.

That they had crusades in the past and were having crusades now just with different weapons, economic weapons, cultural weapons, missionary weapons.

He told us about Christian missionaries who came to Muslim countries with food and medicine but whose real goal was to convert people away from the truth.

He told us about Muslim children being adopted by Christian families and raised as Christians.

He told us about churches being built with money from America and Europe.

about how they were trying to buy people’s faith.

And he told us we had a duty to resist, to protect our community, to stand firm, to push back.

I drank it all in like a man dying of thirst.

Finally, I had a purpose.

Finally, I understood why my mother had died.

Why the world was full of suffering? Why I felt so angry all the time.

It wasn’t random.

It was a test.

It was a war.

And I was a soldier.

I started looking at the Christians in our area differently.

The old woman at the bakery wasn’t kind anymore in my eyes.

She was a deceiver trying to win converts with warm bread and smiles.

The Christian families weren’t our neighbors.

They were the enemy living among us.

The church wasn’t just a building.

It was an outpost, a beach head, a invasion point for Western corruption.

When I was 17, I got into my first fight with a Christian boy my age.

His name was Sami, and he went to the same secondary school as me.

We were in a class together and the teacher asked a question about history, about the Crusades.

Sammy said something about how both sides had committed atrocities, about how it was more complicated than just good versus evil.

I couldn’t let that stand.

After class, I confronted him.

We argued.

It got heated.

I pushed him.

He pushed back.

Soon we were on the ground, fists flying, other students gathering around and shouting.

A teacher pulled us apart.

We both got suspended for 3 days.

My father wasn’t angry about the suspension.

He was proud.

He told me I had defended the truth.

He told me Sami’s family were the kind of Christians who pretended to be moderate but were really trying to make Islam look bad.

He told me I should never back down from defending our faith.

That felt good.

My father’s approval felt like water in a desert.

I wanted more of it.

By the time I was 19, I had gathered my own small group of friends who thought like I did.

There were five of us.

We weren’t officially part of any organization, but we saw ourselves as defenders of our community.

We would talk for hours about the threats we faced, about what we needed to do, about how the older generation was too soft, too willing to live alongside the Christians and pretend everything was fine.

We started small.

Graffiti on Christian shops.

Nothing violent, just words, letting them know they weren’t welcome.

Then we escalated.

We would throw rocks at the church windows at night.

We would follow Christian girls and harass them about their clothing, telling them they should cover themselves properly.

We would make sure Christian shop owners knew they should pay extra taxes, special fees for protection.

I remember one afternoon when I was 22, we went to a small shop owned by an elderly Christian woman.

She sold household items, simple things like dishes and cups and brooms.

Her husband had died and this shop was how she survived.

We went in and I told her she needed to pay us money each month for protection.

She looked at me with these tired eyes and asked what she needed protection from.

I told her she needed protection from the instability in the region, from the bad elements who might target Christians.

I didn’t say we were those bad elements.

I didn’t need to.

She understood.

She said she barely made enough to eat, that she couldn’t afford to pay us.

I looked around her shop and very deliberately picked up a ceramic bowl.

I held it up, looked at it, then dropped it.

It shattered on the floor.

I told her the next time it might be her window or her door or worse.

Then we left.

I can still see her face.

I can still see the fear in her eyes.

The way her hands trembled.

The way she looked so small and helpless.

And you want to know the worst part? I felt powerful.

I felt righteous.

I felt like I was doing God’s work.

She paid us.

Every month, this elderly widow who could barely feed herself paid us money she didn’t have because we terrorized her.

And I took that money and felt proud.

We did this to other Christian businesses, too.

We weren’t the only group doing it.

There were others like us.

Some more extreme, some less.

The Christians in our area were becoming more and more afraid.

Some of them left, sold their properties for nothing, and moved to Christian areas in other parts of Syria or left the country entirely.

I told myself this was good.

We were purifying our community.

We were protecting Islam.

We were standing up for truth.

But at night when I was alone, sometimes I felt empty.

There was a hollow place inside me that no amount of righteous anger could fill.

I would lie in bed and think about my mother.

I wondered what she would think of who I had become.

I wondered if she would recognize me.

Then I would push those thoughts away and remind myself that I was doing what was necessary, what was right.

When I was 25, we escalated further.

There was a Christian family who lived three streets from my father’s shop.

The father worked as a teacher.

The mother stayed home with their three children.

They were quiet people.

never caused any trouble, kept to themselves mostly.

But Shik Ahmad told us they were missionaries.

He said they were secretly trying to convert Muslims, that they had literature in their home, that they were dangerous.

We decided to drive them out.

It started with threats.

Notes slipped under their door, graffiti on their wall.

Then we broke their windows one night.

The father went to the police, but the police did nothing.

Everyone knew the police wouldn’t protect Christians.

Not really.

Not when tensions were so high.

Not when they had their own sympathies and fears.

Then we set fire to their car.

I remember standing in the shadows across the street, watching it burn.

The father came running out of the house in his sleeping clothes, his wife behind him, their children crying.

The flames were bright in the darkness.

The car was old and cheap, probably all they could afford, and now it was being destroyed.

The father stood there with his hands on his head, just staring at the flames like he couldn’t believe it was happening.

his youngest child, a girl maybe 5 years old, was crying and asking why someone would do this.

The mother was holding her and I could hear her trying to explain, trying to make sense of senseless hatred for a child who couldn’t understand.

They left two weeks later, packed up everything they could carry, and moved away.

I never found out where they went.

We celebrated.

We had protected our community.

We had removed a threat.

But that hollow feeling inside me got bigger.

I started having trouble sleeping.

I would wake up in the middle of the night with my heart racing, thinking about that little girl crying, asking why.

I would remember the elderly woman in the shop, her trembling hands.

I would remember Sammy from school how we used to actually be friends when we were children before my father taught me to hate him.

I tried to fill the emptiness with more action, more righteousness, more certainty.

I read the texts more.

I prayed more.

I went to Shik Ahmed’s sessions more frequently.

I convinced myself that these doubts were tests, that they was a whispers of Satan trying to weaken my resolve.

By the time I was 28, I had become well known in certain circles.

People knew me as someone serious about faith, someone willing to act, someone not afraid of Christians.

My father was proud, though he never said it directly.

Shake Ahmed praised me in front of the other young men.

I had respect.

I had purpose.

I had identity.

But I was also more alone than I had ever been.

I had no real friends, only allies in ideology.

I had no wife because what woman wants to marry a man whose eyes are hard and whose heart is full of anger? I had no joy, only the grim satisfaction of duty.

I had no peace, only the constant vigilance of someone at war.

The civil war in Syria started in 2011.

I was 31 years old.

Everything became more chaotic, more violent, more uncertain.

Different groups were fighting for control.

Christians were caught in the middle as they always are.

Some areas became completely lawless.

The things I had done, the intimidation and threats seemed almost quaint compared to what was happening across the country.

But in our region, there was still some semblance of order, some structure.

And within that structure, people like me had more power than ever.

The authorities were distracted with bigger problems.

The Christians were more vulnerable than ever, and my hatred had grown roots so deep I couldn’t imagine living without it.

It’s strange how hatred becomes comfortable, how it becomes familiar.

It’s like a bitter taste you get so used to that you can’t imagine sweetness anymore.

It was my identity.

Without it, who was I? Just a man whose mother died when he was nine, whose father stopped loving him, who was angry and sad and empty.

With it, I was a warrior, a defender, a man of faith and principle.

The church I mentioned at the beginning, the one on the edge of our town, it had been there for generations.

It was small, made of old stone with a simple wooden cross on top.

Maybe 40 or 50 Christians attended services there.

They were mostly older people, families who had lived in the area for decades or even centuries.

They weren’t missionaries.

They weren’t trying to convert anyone.

They were just trying to survive, to worship in peace, to live their lives.

But I had convinced myself they were the problem.

Shik Ahmed talked about them often.

He said their very presence was an insult, that having a church in a Muslim area was a provocation.

He said they were the seed of Western influence, that as long as they were there, our community would never be pure.

I started watching that church.

I would walk past it, observe who came and went.

I noticed they had a Wednesday evening prayer service.

About 30 people would come, mostly elderly, a few families with children.

They would sing hymns in Arabic.

Sometimes I could hear them from the street.

Songs about love and peace and Jesus.

Those songs made me angry.

How dare they sing about peace when they represented everything wrong with the world? How dare they talk about love when their religion had caused so much suffering to Muslims throughout history? I started planning.

I told myself I was being strategic, careful, thoughtful.

But really, I was trying to build up the courage because even though my heart was hard, even though I had done terrible things, I had never actually tried to kill anyone.

I had threatened.

I had intimidated.

I had destroyed property.

But murder was different.

Murder was crossing a line I hadn’t crossed before.

I spent weeks convincing myself.

I read texts about defending the faith.

I listened to Shik Ahmmed talk about the greater good, about how sometimes harsh actions are necessary to prevent greater harm.

I reminded myself of all the things I believed Christians had done, were doing, would do.

And slowly that line that seemed so bright and clear started to fade, started to seem less important, started to seem like just another obstacle to righteousness.

I decided I would do it on a Wednesday evening during their prayer service when they were all gathered together in one place.

I didn’t tell anyone my plan, not even my group of friends.

This was something I needed to do alone.

This was going to be my act of ultimate devotion, my proof that I was serious, that I was willing to sacrifice everything for what I believed.

I’m not going to tell you exactly what I planned to do, what I prepared, what I carried, because I don’t want anyone to think I’m providing a blueprint.

But it was enough.

It would have been enough to kill many people, maybe all of them.

The night I chose was in March of 2013.

I remember the date exactly.

March 20th, a Wednesday.

The weather was cool, not cold.

There was a wind that carried the smell of jasmine from somewhere.

The sun had set about an hour before.

The streets were quiet.

I had fasted that day.

I had prayed all the prescribed prayers.

I had read from the texts.

I had prepared myself spiritually for what I was about to do.

I was calm, eerily calm.

It was like I was watching myself from outside my body, like I was both the actor and the observer.

I left my apartment at 7:00 in the evening.

The church service started at 7:30.

I walked slowly through the streets I had known my entire life, past my father’s closed shop, past the bakery where the Christian woman used to give me warm bread when I was a child.

Past the school where I had fought with Sami, past the street where that family used to live before we drove them away.

and the sky was darkening from blue to purple to black.

Stars were beginning to appear.

The call to the evening prayer had already been given hours ago.

Most people were in their homes now, eating dinner with their families, watching television, living their normal lives.

I was walking towards the church to kill people I didn’t even know.

As I got closer, I could hear the singing.

They had started their service.

Their voices were rising and falling in harmonies, singing in Arabic about God’s love, about mercy, about grace.

The melodies were beautiful.

I hated that they were beautiful.

I hated that part of me wanted to stop and listen.

I could feel my heart beating faster now.

My hands were sweating.

My mouth was dry.

This was it.

This was the moment I had been building toward for years.

All the hatred, all the anger, all the pain of my mother’s death and my father’s coldness and my own emptiness.

It was all leading to this moment.

I reached the church.

It was a simple building, old stone walls, wooden door, small windows with light glowing from inside.

I could see shadows moving against the windows.

people standing singing, families, children, grandmothers and grandfathers who had worshiped in this building for decades.

I put my hand on the door handle.

I was ready to push it open.

And then everything changed.

I want you to understand something.

I’ve told this story many times now.

to small groups, to large audiences, to individuals who are seeking, to people who are skeptical.

And every single time I get to this part, I start shaking.

Even now, years later, my hands tremble when I remember what happened next because what happened wasn’t natural.

It wasn’t psychological.

It wasn’t me having a crisis of conscience or a panic attack or second thoughts.

What happened was God.

My hand was on the door handle.

The metal was cool under my palm.

I could hear the singing on the other side.

30 people who had no idea what was about to happen to them.

30 people who came to pray, to worship, to find peace in their week.

30 people whose lives I was about to end.

I was ready.

My mind was made up.

My heart was hard.

I had spent years building up to this moment.

And there was nothing inside me that wanted to stop.

And then I couldn’t move.

It wasn’t like I chose to freeze.

It wasn’t like I hesitated.

It was like my body stopped being under my control.

My hand was on the door handle, but I couldn’t push it.

I couldn’t even let go.

I was just frozen there, my hand gripping the metal, my body rigid.

For a few seconds, I thought maybe I was having a stroke or a heart attack.

My mind was screaming at my body to move, to push the door, to complete the mission, but my body wouldn’t obey.

Then came the light.

How do I describe this? I’ve tried so many times and words always feel inadequate.

It was light, yes, but not like any light I’ve ever seen.

It didn’t come from the church or from the street lamps or from the sky.

It came from everywhere and nowhere at the same time.

It surrounded me completely.

It was inside me and outside me simultaneously.

And it was bright.

Brighter than the sun.

Brighter than anything I can compare it to.

But it didn’t hurt my eyes.

I could look at it.

I could see through it.

And somehow I could see everything more clearly than I ever had before.

I couldn’t move.

I couldn’t speak.

I couldn’t do anything except stand there frozen, surrounded by this impossible light.

And then I heard the voice again.

How do I describe this? It wasn’t a voice in my ears.

It wasn’t like someone standing next to me speaking.

It was deeper than that, more fundamental than that.

It was like the voice was speaking directly into my soul, into the deepest part of me where I couldn’t hide or lie or pretend.

The voice said, “My name, not Rashid in Arabic.

My full name.

The name my mother gave me.

The name that carries meaning in our language.

” The voice said it with such tenderness, such knowing, such love that I felt something crack inside my chest.

Nobody had said my name like that since my mother died.

Nobody had spoken to me with that kind of gentle authority.

And then the voice asked me a question.

It asked why I was persecuting him.

I was confused.

Persecuting who? I was here to attack Christians, not to persecute anyone in particular.

And anyway, how could I be persecuting someone who was speaking to me in this moment? It didn’t make sense.

I tried to speak.

Somehow in the midst of this impossibility, I managed to push words out of my throat and I asked who was speaking to me.

The answer broke me.

The voice said he was Jesus.

The one I was persecuting.

Jesus, the name I had been taught to respect but the prophet who Christians had turned into God.

Who they worshiped instead of the true God.

the figure at the center of the religion I hated the faith I was trying to destroy Jesus was speaking to me and he said when I persecuted his followers I was persecuting him my mind couldn’t process this everything I believed everything I had built my life on everything that made sense of my anger and my pain it was all being
challenged in this single moment.

If this was really Jesus, if he was really speaking to me, then everything I thought I knew was wrong.

The light intensified, if that was even possible.

And I started seeing things.

They weren’t visions exactly.

They were more like memories, but memories that I was seeing from a different perspective.

I saw my mother’s face, not as I usually remembered her, sick and dying, but as she was before the cancer, smiling, laughing, and I realized something I had never fully understood before.

She had been kind to everyone, Christians, Muslims, everyone.

Her faith had made her gentle, not hard.

And my father’s faith, the faith he had taught me, had made him hard because of his pain, not because of God.

I saw the elderly woman in the shop, the one I had threatened, the one I had extorted.

But this time, I saw her the way God saw her.

I saw her loneliness after her husband died.

I saw her praying at night for protection.

I saw her crying over whether to pay us or whether to buy food.

I saw how afraid she was and I felt the weight of what I had done to her.

I saw the family we had driven away.

The little girl who asked why someone would burn their car.

I saw her nightmares afterward.

I saw her struggling to feel safe in the world.

I saw the damage we had caused to an innocent child’s soul.

I saw every act of hatred I had committed, every threat, every intimidation, every time I had made someone afraid, made someone suffer, made someone feel less than human.

And I saw that Jesus was in each of those people.

That when I hurt them, I was hurting him.

that he loved them and died for them, carried them in his heart.

And I had been persecuting him by persecuting them.

The weight of it crushed me.

I physically couldn’t stand anymore.

My legs gave out and I collapsed onto the stone steps of the church.

The light was still there, still surrounding me.

The presence was still there, still overwhelming me.

And for the first time since I was 9 years old, I wept.

Not quiet tears, not dignified crying.

I sobbed like a child.

Deep gasping, body shaking sobs that came from somewhere so far down inside me that I didn’t even know it existed.

All the pain I had been carrying for 19 years.

All the anger, all the hatred, all the emptiness, it all came pouring out of me in waves of grief.

I was crying for my mother.

For the little boy who lost her and didn’t know how to grieve.

For my father who became hard because he didn’t know how to grieve either.

For every person I had hurt.

For the man I had become.

For the years I had wasted on hatred.

For the church I had almost destroyed.

For the people I had almost killed.

I was crying because Jesus knew my name.

Because he spoke to me with love.

Even though I came to murder his followers.

Because he showed me the truth about myself.

And it was ugly and terrible.

But he was still there.

still present, still offering something I couldn’t name yet, but desperately needed.

I couldn’t stop.

I was crying so hard I couldn’t breathe properly, tears and mucus running down my face, my whole body convulsing with sobs.

And I started speaking or trying to speak through the crying.

I don’t remember exactly what I said, but it was confession.

It was admission.

It was begging for something I didn’t have words for.

I don’t know how long I was there on those steps.

Time felt strange, elastic.

It might have been 2 minutes or 20 minutes.

But at some point, I became aware that the singing had stopped.

The door opened.

I looked up, my vision blurred with tears, and saw people standing in the doorway.

The Christians I had come to kill were looking at me collapsed on their steps, weeping uncontrollably.

For a moment, nobody moved.

They stared at me.

I stared at them.

I could see the fear in their faces.

Some of them recognized me.

I saw the recognition in their eyes.

They knew who I was.

They knew what I had done to other Christians in the area.

An older man stepped forward.

He had gray in his beard, lines in his face, gentle eyes.

He was wearing simple clothes, a worn jacket.

Later I would learn his name was Father Yousef, and that he had been the pastor of this church for 23 years.

He looked at me there on the steps crying, and he didn’t look afraid.

He looked concerned.

He asked if I was hurt, if I needed help.

I tried to answer, but I couldn’t form words.

I just shook my head and kept crying.

He came closer slowly and knelt down beside me.

He was an arms length away, close enough that I could have hurt him if I wanted to, but he seemed unafraid.

Or maybe he was afraid, but chose compassion anyway.

I don’t know which is more remarkable.

He asked me why I was crying and somehow I managed to speak.

My voice was broken and I got the words out.

I told him I saw Jesus.

I told him Jesus spoke to me.

I told him I came here to hurt them, to destroy the church, to kill them.

I told him I was sorry.

I told him I didn’t understand what was happening to me.

The words tumbled out in a jumble, barely coherent, interrupted by sobs.

But he listened.

He sat there on the steps next to me, this man whose church I came to destroy, and he listened to my confession.

Behind him, I could see the other Christians gathering in the doorway.

Some looked afraid, some looked confused.

A few looked angry, and they had every right to be.

But Father Ysef held up his hand to them, signaling them to wait, to be patient.

Then he did something that made no sense.

He put his hand on my shoulder.

The touch was gentle, fatherly, like my own father’s touch had been before my mother died, before everything went cold and hard.

I hadn’t felt a touch like that in nearly 20 years.

And it broke me all over again.

Fresh sobs poured out of me.

Father Yousef didn’t say anything at first.

He just sat there with his hand on my shoulder, letting me cry, giving me space to fall apart.

The other Christians watched from the doorway, uncertain, waiting to see what he would do.

Finally, when my crying had subsided a bit, he spoke.

He said that if Jesus had spoken to me, then something very important was happening.

He said that Jesus doesn’t speak to people for no reason.

He said I was clearly carrying great pain and that pain needed to be cared for.

Then he asked if I wanted to come inside.

Inside into the building I had come to destroy among the people I had come to kill.

I should have said no.

I should have run away.

I should have been too ashamed, too broken, too confused.

But something in me desperately wanted to say yes.

Wanted to be near these people who were showing me kindness when they should have been calling the police or worse.

Wanted to be in a place where Jesus had just spoken to me, where the light had surrounded me, where everything had changed.

I nodded.

Father Ysef helped me to my feet.

I was shaking, weak, barely able to stand.

He supported me with one arm and guided me toward the door.

The other Christians parted to let us through, and I could feel their eyes on me, feel their uncertainty and fear.

The interior of the church was simple.

Wooden pews, stone walls, candles burning in holders along the sides.

At the front was an icon, a painting of Jesus looking directly at the viewer with eyes that seemed alive.

The same eyes I had somehow seen in the light.

The same gentle authority, the same impossible love.

My legs gave out again, and I sank onto the nearest pew.

Father Yousef sat down beside me.

The other Christians filed back in slowly, cautiously, taking their seats, but keeping their distance.

They were watching me like I might explode at any moment.

I put my face in my hands and tried to breathe.

Tried to make sense of what was happening.

My whole world view had just been shattered in the space of a few minutes.

Everything I believed about God, about truth, about right and wrong, it was all in pieces around me and I didn’t know how to put it back together.

Father Ysef let the silence sit for a while.

Then he started speaking softly.

He said that Jesus appears to people in different ways.

He told me about a man named Saul who persecuted Christians almost 2,000 years ago.

Saul was traveling to a city to arrest Christians when Jesus appeared to him in a bright light, struck him down and spoke to him.

Saul was blinded by the experience for 3 days and then he became Paul, one of the greatest followers of Jesus who ever lived.

He said, “If Jesus had appeared to Saul, then nothing was impossible.

Jesus could appear to anyone, even to someone who came to hurt his followers.

” I listened to this story and something resonated deep inside me.

This Saul, this Paul, he was like me.

He had the same certainty I had, the same zeal, the same conviction that he was right and everyone else was wrong.

And Jesus had broken through all of that with light and truth and love.

The others in the church were still watching me.

I could feel their uncertainty.

And I didn’t blame them.

They had every reason to doubt me, to fear me, or to want me gone.

One woman stood up.

She was older, maybe in her 60s, wearing a simple dress and headscarf.

She looked at me for a long moment, and I saw her struggling with something.

Then she spoke.

She said she knew who I was.

She said I had destroyed her sister’s shop 2 years ago, had threatened her, had driven her family to leave the area.

The church went silent.

Everyone was looking at her, then at me, then back at her.

She said her sister cried for weeks.

She said her sister’s children still have nightmares.

She said I had done terrible things to people who never harmed me.

I couldn’t meet her eyes.

I stared at the floor, the weight of her words crushing me.

Everything she said was true.

I had no defense, no excuse, no justification that made any sense anymore.

Then she said something I’ll never forget.

She said she didn’t know if God had really spoken to me or if this was some kind of trick, but she said that if God can forgive someone like me, then she had to try to forgive me, too.

Even if it was hard, even if part of her wanted to see me suffer, because that’s what Jesus taught.

Love your enemies.

Forgive those who persecute you.

She sat back down and there were tears in her eyes.

The church was quiet again.

Father Yousef was looking at his congregation, giving them space to react, to process this impossible situation.

Then a younger man spoke up.

He said they should call the authorities.

He said I had come here to hurt them.

And just because I was crying now didn’t mean I wasn’t dangerous.

He said they had families to protect.

He wasn’t wrong.

Everything he said was reasonable.

But an elderly man in the back said they should at least hear my full story first.

He said something had clearly happened to me.

something real and powerful and they should try to understand what before making any decisions.

They debated back and forth.

Some wanted me gone immediately.

Others thought they should help me.

Others weren’t sure what to think.

Through it all, I just sat there empty, rung out, barely able to follow the conversation.

Finally, Father Yousef spoke again.

He said that Jesus commanded them to love their enemies, to show mercy, to be different from the world.

He said this was a test of whether they really believed what they claimed to believe.

He said, “I was clearly in spiritual crisis.

And if they turned me away, they might be turning away someone God was trying to reach.

” He said I could come to his home for the night.

he would take responsibility for me and in the morning we could talk more, figure out what to do next.

There was some grumbling, some clear disagreement.

But Father Ysef had authority in this community and eventually people accepted his decision even if they didn’t like it.

The service didn’t continue.

How could it? Everyone was too shaken, too confused.

People started to leave in small groups, casting glances back at me.

Some looked afraid, some looked angry.

A few looked at me with something that might have been pity.

When the church was mostly empty, Father Yousef helped me up again.

We walked out into the night and I realized the light was gone.

The presence was gone.

I was just a man again, hollow and confused and fundamentally changed in ways I didn’t understand yet.

We walked through the quiet streets to his home.

It wasn’t far, maybe 10 minutes.

He lived in a modest house, old stone like most buildings in the area, with a small courtyard.

When we entered, his wife came to meet us.

She looked at me, looked at her husband, and I could see the question in her eyes.

He explained briefly what had happened.

She looked at me with a mixture of concern and weariness, but she didn’t object.

She showed me to a small room with a mat on the floor, gave me a blanket, and left me alone.

I lay there in the darkness, exhausted, but unable to sleep.

My mind was racing trying to process everything.

Had I really seen Jesus? Had he really spoken to me? Or was I losing my mind? Was this a breakdown, a psychotic episode, some kind of brain malfunction? But I knew what I experienced.

The light was real.

The voice was real.

The visions of my victims were real.

The breaking of my heart was real.

And if it was real, if Jesus really had appeared to me, then everything else I believed was wrong.

Everything I had built my life on was a lie.

My father was wrong.

Shik Ahmad was wrong.

I was wrong.

I had wasted years on hatred.

I had hurt innocent people.

I had almost become a mass murderer.

And the only thing that stopped me was Jesus himself intervening.

I started crying again, quietly this time, tears running down my face in the darkness.

I was grateful no one could see me.

Grateful for this small room where I could fall apart in private.

But underneath the grief and confusion and shame, there was something else.

Something small and fragile, but growing.

hope.

For the first time in 19 years since my mother died and my father turned cold and my heart turned hard, I felt hope.

Jesus had spoken to me.

Jesus knew my name.

Jesus had stopped me from doing the worst thing I could have done.

And if he stopped me, maybe he had a purpose for me.

Maybe I wasn’t beyond saving.

Maybe this breaking was the beginning of something new.

I didn’t have words for it yet.

I didn’t understand it, but I felt it there in my chest like a tiny seed planted in scorched earth.

Hope that I might become someone different, someone better, someone who could be forgiven for the unforgivable.

I fell asleep eventually, my face still wet with tears, my heart still shattered, but somehow not completely destroyed.

The light might have gone, but the memory of it remained.

And that memory would change everything.

I woke up the next morning disoriented, not remembering at first where I was.

Then it all came flooding back.

The church, the light, Jesus speaking my name, collapsing on the steps, the Christians taking me in.

I sat up and looked around the small room.

Morning light was coming through a small window.

I could hear sounds from elsewhere in the house.

Quiet conversation, the clatter of dishes, normal domestic sounds that felt surreal given what had happened.

I didn’t know what to do.

Part of me wanted to run, to leave before anyone woke up, to go back to my apartment and try to forget any of this happened.

But I knew I couldn’t forget.

And I knew I shouldn’t run.

Whatever was happening to me, I needed to face it.

There was a knock on the door.

Father Ysef’s wife entered carrying a tray with bread, cheese, olives, and tea.

She set it down without looking directly at me, then left without saying a word.

I couldn’t tell if she was afraid of me or angry at me or just uncertain.

Probably all three.

I ate slowly.

My stomach was in knots, but I was also hungry.

I realized I hadn’t eaten since the day before when I had fasted in preparation for what I planned to do.

The irony wasn’t lost on me.

I had fasted to prepare for murder.

And now I was eating bread provided by my wouldbe victims.

Father Yousef came in after I finished.

He sat down across from me and studied my face.

His eyes were kind but searching like he was trying to read what was really inside me.

He asked how I slept.

I told him not well, but that I was grateful for the room, for his kindness.

My voice sounded strange to my own ears, weak, uncertain, so different from the confident hatred I usually spoke with.

He nodded and then asked me to tell him everything.

Not just what happened last night, but everything.

who I was, why I hated Christians, what led me to that church door.

So I told him, it took hours.

I told him about my mother dying, about my father changing, about Shik Ahmad and the study group and the years of indoctrination, about the Christian boy I fought with, about the businesses we extorted, about the elderly woman, about the family we drove away, about planning to attack the church.

I didn’t leave anything out.

What was the point of hiding now? If Jesus could see into my soul, and he clearly could, then there was no point in pretending.

Father Ysef needed to know who I really was, what I was really capable of.

He listened without interrupting.

Sometimes his face showed pain, especially when I described the people I had hurt.

But he never looked disgusted, never looked like he regretted helping me.

He just listened with full attention, giving me space to confess everything.

When I finished, we sat in silence for a while.

I felt exhausted, like the telling had drained something out of me, but also lighter somehow, like poison I had been carrying was finally being released.

Father Ysef spoke then.

He said he believed me about Jesus appearing to me.

He said he had heard of similar things happening to others.

Muslims who encountered Christ in dreams or visions and had their lives completely changed.

He said Jesus does this sometimes appears to people who are far from him.

People who might never hear the gospel otherwise.

He said that what I experienced was grace.

Undeserved, unearned, impossible grace.

I asked him what I should do now because I genuinely didn’t know.

My whole life had been oriented around hating Christians and defending Islam.

If that was gone, if that was wrong, then who was I? What was I supposed to do? He said the first thing was to learn to really understand who Jesus is, what he taught, what he offers.

He said I had spent years learning one perspective and now I needed to learn another, not through force or indoctrination, but through honest seeking.

He pulled out a book from his shelf, a Bible, but in Arabic.

He opened it to a section and told me to read.

It was from something called the Gospel of Matthew chapter 5, the sermon on the mount.

I started reading, “Blessed are the poor in spirit.

Blessed are those who mourn.

Blessed are the meek.

Blessed are the merciful.

” The words felt like water on parched ground.

They were so different from everything I had been taught.

So gentle, so focused on internal transformation rather than external conformity.

So concerned with the heart rather than just actions.

Love your enemies.

Pray for those who persecute you.

Turn the other cheek.

Go the extra mile.

Give to those who ask.

I looked up at Father Yousef with tears in my eyes again.

I seemed to cry constantly now like a dam had broken and years of suppressed emotion were flooding out.

I asked how anyone could live this way.

It seemed impossible, weak.

He smiled sadly and said it was impossible with human strength alone.

But with God’s help, with the Holy Spirit living inside you, it becomes possible.

Not easy, never easy, but possible.

He said, “Jesus didn’t just teach these things.

He lived them.

He loved his enemies.

He forgave those who crucified him.

He gave everything, even his own life, for people who hated him, like me.

He gave his life for people like me.

” I spent that whole first day reading and talking with Father Yousef.

His wife made lunch and we all ate together in awkward silence.

She was still wary of me.

I didn’t blame her.

Her husband had brought a wolf into their home and was treating it like a lost sheep.

Other members of the church came by throughout the day.

Some just to check on Father Yousef to make sure he was safe.

Others to see me to try to understand what was happening.

Their reactions were mixed.

A middle-aged man came and looked at me with barely concealed anger.

He said I had threatened his cousin’s business, that his cousin had to pay us protection money for months.

He said his cousin’s children went hungry some nights because of what we took.

He looked at me like he wanted to hurt me, and I couldn’t blame him.

I deserved his anger.

But an older woman came and brought me food.

She said she had been praying for the young men in the area who hated Christians, praying that God would change their hearts.

She said she never expected her prayers to be answered like this, but she believed God was doing something important.

Each visitor was a reminder of the damage I had caused.

Each face showed me the ripples of my hatred spreading through this community.

But each act of kindness, even from people I had wronged, showed me something I had never really understood before.

Forgiveness wasn’t just a word.

It was a choice.

A hard, costly choice that people made even when they had every right to refuse.

I stayed with Father Yousef and his family for a week.

During that time, I barely left the house.

Partly because I was afraid of being seen, afraid of what my father or Sheik Ahmad or my former friends would do if they found out where I was, but partly because I needed to hide from the world and figure out what was happening to me.

Every day, Father Yousef would teach me.

We would read from the Bible together.

He would explain things, answer my questions, challenge my assumptions.

He never pressured me, never demanded that I convert or make any declarations.

He just taught and let the truth work on my heart.

I learned about Jesus’s life, how he was born in poverty, how he spent his time with outcasts and sinners, how he challenged religious hypocrisy, how he healed people, how he taught about God’s love.

I learned about his death, how he was betrayed, arrested, tortured, crucified.

How he could have called down angels to save him but chose to die instead.

how his last words were asking God to forgive those who killed him.

I learned about the resurrection, how he rose from the dead on the third day, proving he was who he claimed to be.

How he appeared to his followers, showed them his wounds, ate with them, how he promised to be with them always, to send his spirit to live inside them.

And slowly painfully I started to understand Jesus wasn’t just a prophet.

He claimed to be God in human form.

He claimed to be the way, the truth, the life.

He claimed that no one comes to the father except through him.

These were either the claims of a madman or they were true.

There was no middle ground.

And if they were true, if Jesus really was God, if he really did die and rise again, then everything changed.

Every religion that denied this was missing the most important truth in the universe, including the religion I had built my whole life around.

This realization was terrifying because if I accepted it, I wasn’t just changing my mind about a few things.

I was abandoning everything I had ever known.

I was admitting that my father was wrong, that Shik Ahmed was wrong, that I had wasted years of my life on a lie.

I was choosing a path that would make me a traitor in the eyes of everyone I had ever known.

I wrestled with this for days.

I would lie awake at night arguing with myself trying to find a way to reconcile what I had experienced with what I had always believed.

But I kept coming back to the light, the voice, Jesus speaking my name.

I knew what I had experienced.

And it was either God or I was insane.

And if it was God, then Jesus was who he claimed to be.

One afternoon during that first week, there was a knock on the door.

Father Ysef answered it, and I heard a woman’s voice asking to see me.

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